The Tragedy of Hamlet, Prince of Denmark by William Shakespeare w/Tom Libby
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- Welcome & Introduction – 0:05:00
- The Power of Communication: Hamlet’s Act 2 Scene 1 on Male & Female Leadership Dynamics – 00:12:06
- Shakespeare’s ‘Hamlet’ and Leadership: The Political Environment of Messy Power Struggles – 00:20:25
- The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership: Beyond Core Competencies and Industrialization – 00:32:06
- Hamlet discovers his father’s murderer and swears revenge – 00:34:37
- Elites believe in incest to maintain purity – 00:47:39
- Shakespeare’s Editorial Decisions: An Examination of Words and Taste – 00:52:24
- Leaders as Editors: How Editorial and Curation Decisions Shape Outcomes -00:56:04
- Which Hamlet Version Do You Really Know? Popular Culture’s Adaptations Examined – 01:01:56
- Comparing Shakespeare’s ‘Taming of the Shrew’ to the Modern Adaptation ‘Ten Things I Hate About You’ – 01:10:56
- Folger Library’s Editorial Interventions: Understanding Shakespeare’s Texts in the 21st Century – 01:14:48
- Jack of All Trades: Sales Methodologies for Adapting to Customer Needs in Leadership – 01:49:30
- Staying on the Path – 01:55:03
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Hello. My name is Jesan Sorrells and this is the leadership lessons
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from the Great Podcast episode number 54
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with our book today. Well, actually our play
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today, probably one of the top five most famous pieces
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of literature, english literature ever written in
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the Western world. The tragedy of
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Hamlet, Prince of Denmark, by William Shakespeare.
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This is our kickoff to a month long
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joust, or shall I say jaunt,
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through the through the realm of Shakespeare, through the world of
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Shakespeare, through the world of the writings of William
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Shakespeare. We’ll be covering Macbeth,
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or not Macbeth. I’m sorry. No, we’ll be doing Macbeth a little bit later on
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down the pike. We’ll be doing Taming of the Shrew. We’ll be doing
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Othello and we will be doing my personal favorite
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Shakespeare play, King Lear. This is actually follow
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up to Julius Caesar. So you should go back and listen
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to that episode last year if you’d like
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to hear some really trenched analysis on how Shakespeare talked about power
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and the lessons that can be learned about power from reading
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Julius Caesar, particularly the first
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couple of acts. As usual, Hamlet is built
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on a five act structure and today we
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will be focusing for the most part on
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the first couple of acts that are the set up for other things. We’ll also
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be talking about other things, other events that occur later
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on in the play. We’ll also be talking about the impact of Hamlet
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on a larger cultural stage and of course, the ways
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in which we mostly interact with Shakespeare in our time,
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which is typically not in a stage play for the vast majority of us,
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if we interact with Shakespeare at all, it is going to be through
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film. And of course, Tom is a great lover of
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film, as am I. I recently watched
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this weekend the 1996 version of
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The Tragedy of Hamlet starring Kenneth Branaw,
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which was also directed by Kenneth Branaw and he played
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the titular character, Hamlet.
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I’ll be starting today from scene two, act One.
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Enter Claudius, King of Denmark,
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gertrude, the queen counselors Polonius and
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his son Laerities Hamlet, and including
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Voltemon and Cornelius. And by the way, the version of Hamlet
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that I will be reading from the podcast we’ll be reading from a couple of
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different versions is the Puffin Books version,
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an imprint of Penguin Group published
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in, let’s see here 2011
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for the Puffin Young Readers Group. So this is
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a version of Shakespeare, a version of Hamlet that is
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really targeted towards the modern reader,
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right? But we’ll also be pulling information from
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the folger annotated version of Shakespeare,
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which for my money is great because it not only
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has all the annotation, has, many of the original terms and words
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that have been taken out of Shakespeare to make it easier to read have been
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put back in. It also has some very interesting information in it
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at the front, including a summary of Hamlet that makes
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it a lot easier to kind of get through because we’re actually able
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to understand as readers what the actual
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text is doing. And that textural introduction is
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by Barbara Mauett and Paul Worstein. I would encourage
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you to check out the Folger Shakespeare versions.
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They have The Taming of the Shrew, they have Othello, and these are
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really, really good if you need a grounding in Hamlet. And we’ll get a
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grounding today when we talk about the literary life of William Shakespeare.
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All right, back to Hamlet. Scene Two the
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castle. By the way, we’re going to read this with a flourish
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today on the podcast the
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King of Denmark. Though yet
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of Hamlet our dear brother’s death, the memory be green,
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and that it is us befitted to bear our hearts in grief
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and our whole kingdom to be contracted in one brow of woe,
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yet so far hath discretion fought with nature that we with
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wisest sorrow think on him, together with remembrance
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of ourselves. Therefore our sometime sister,
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now our queen, the imperial jointrist to this warlike
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state have we as twer with a defeated joy, with an auspicious
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and a drooping eye, with mirth in funeral and with
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dearth in marriage in equal scale, weighing delight
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and dole taken to wife.
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Nor have we herein barred your better wisdoms, which have freely
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gone with this fare along. For all, our thanks. Now follows
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that you know that young fortnbros holding a weak proposal
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of our worth or thinking by our late dear brother’s death our
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state to be in disjoint and out of frame.
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colleagued, with this dream of his advantage, he hath not
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failed to pester us with his message importing the surrender of
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those lands lost by his father with all bands of law
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to our most valiant brother.
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So much for him. Now for ourself,
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and for this time of meeting, thus much the business is we
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have here writ to Norway, uncle of young Fortnbros,
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who, impotent and bedrid, scarcely hears of his
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nephew’s purpose to suppress his further gain herein that
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the levees, the lists and full proportions are all made out of his subject.
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And we here despatch you, good Cornelius, and you,
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Voltimon, forbearers of this greeting to old Norway,
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giving to you no further personal power to business with
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the king more than the scope of these delighted articles
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allow. Farewell, and let your haste commend
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your duty, Cornelius of Voldemort.
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In that and all things, we shall show our duty. The king,
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no doubt. We doubt it nothing. Heartily farewell.
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Exit, voltamond and Cornelius.
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And now, layer TS. What’s the news with you? You told
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us of some suit. What is it? Laerties? You cannot speak of reason to
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the Dane and lose your voice. What, withoutst now beg Laurities,
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that shalt now be my offer, not thy asking. The head
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is not more native to the heart, the hand more instrumental to
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the mouth than is the throne of Denmark to thy father. What wast
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thou have lairdees lairdees, my dreadlord,
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your leave and favor to return to France, from whence,
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though willingly I came to Denmark to show my duty in your coronation.
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Yet now I must confess, that duty done, my thoughts and wishes
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bend again toward France and bow them to your gracious
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leave and pardon the king.
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Have you your father’s leave? What says Polonius?
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Polonius he hath, my lord, rung from me
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my slow leave by laborsome petition.
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And at last upon his will I sealed my hard consent.
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I do beseech you, give him leave to go.
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The King take thy fare. Hour laerties
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time be thine and thy best graces spend
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it at thy will. But now,
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my cousin Hamlet, and my son,
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by the way, hamlet then speaks aside for
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his first words in the play. In this act,
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a very famous line, a little more kin
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and less than kind,
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the events of Hamlet set the stage
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for tragedy and the events before Hamlet
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set the stage for tragedy written
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roughly 400 years ago. And if
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you go and read the Wikipedia article cobbled together from a collection
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of other stories, hamlet is the story of the Prince of Denmark.
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And Denmark sits in an interesting spot in northern
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Europe. During the early
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to the mid part of the
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17th century, when Shakespeare was writing, there were many wars
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going on. There had been the explosion of the Protestant Reformation,
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beginning with Martin Luther in the 15th
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century. And this had caused a tidal wave of problems in
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Europe, a tidal wave of people moving, a tidal wave
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of people engaged in warfare. You had the English,
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you had the Spanish, you had the French seeking to maintain dominion on
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the continent. You had minor
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entities like the Norwegians and the Danes
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seeking to fight each other and of course,
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not unique to our time, the looming
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power of Russia, and, of course, the disunited
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Germany always in the background.
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This was a time of great struggle. And Shakespeare was writing this story,
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this powerful tale of revenge with a backdrop,
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the context of this great struggle behind him.
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There are many drivers in this play, and Hamlet is one of
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the most notorious plays that Shakespeare ever wrote other than
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Macbeth. It’s his most well known. And yet
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there are things that people miss about Hamlet. We understand.
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Well, I shouldn’t say we understand. There’s an old joke that Isaac Asimov
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used to tell where a woman walked up to him and said back in the
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1960s, I don’t know what all this talk is about Hamlet.
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It’s just a bunch of quotations linked together.
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That’s how powerful this play is. That’s how deeply it has embedded
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itself in the Western consciousness. I’m going to say quotes
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today that you are going to recognize to thine own self be
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true more than kin and less than kind. I’m going
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to say other quotes and you’re going to recognize them. But they’ve
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been decontextualized from Hamlet they
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now have gone on to serve other means.
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I think Shakespeare would approve for
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leaders. There’s a lot to learn from Hamlet and just in that
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beginning set up there, how does a king conduct himself in
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the court after he has potentially usurped
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the throne and taken on the wife
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of the man he may have murdered?
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This is great power politics, kids. And great power
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politics occurs not just between great powers
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and not just between great corporations or great states,
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but it also takes place between great families and in
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great communities. Power is the one thing that
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we have not really talked about too deeply on this podcast,
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because it’s the one thing that everybody knows about but that
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no one can define. Kind of like air and
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power runs through Hamlet.
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Well, like a lightning bolt through a storm
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clouded sky. Of course,
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we have Tom Libby on today to talk about this. The last
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time he read Hamlet was when he was in high school.
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I had more hair than.
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We all had more hair than.
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And so he’s going to shake off the dust of some of that
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high school knowledge, some of that high school remembrance,
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and he’s going to talk with us about the impact of Hamlet on leaders,
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what leaders can take from this play.
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And we’re going to dip in, as I said, much of the information in Hamlet
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is front loaded here in the first three acts. Much of the
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good stuff is front loaded in the first three acts before Hamlet
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descends into frailty deception and madness.
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And we’re not going to trace all of that today because we would have a
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five hour long podcast. Instead, we’re going to just touch on the beginning
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pieces. So, Tom,
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remembering back to Hamlet in high school, right, and thinking
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about your own life and thinking
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about also the many different versions of Hamlet that there are floating around. There’s a
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lot of different things to pull from. Let’s start with something basic.
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What do you think William Shakespeare was chasing here with Hamlet?
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What did he want to tell people? Because we’ve had tragedy ever since the Greeks
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figured out that that was one of the three main types of
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stories, right? Tragedy, comedy,
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and then, of course, there’s the love story, right. There’s the
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romance, right. And by the way, Shakespeare, of course, covered all
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three of these, right? Comedy with the Taming of the Shrew.
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Sometimes they covered all three in one play.
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Exactly right. I’m trying to keep it simple for folks.
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Romance in Midsummer Night’s Dream and of course, straight tragedy
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in plays like Hamlet and Macbeth and King Lear and Othello.
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And by the way, that’s reflected in the full title of Hamlet,
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which is the tragedy of Hamlet,
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Prince of Denmark. So what do
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you think Shakespeare was trying to chase here? For those of us listening
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to the podcast today.
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I think part of it at its most fundamental core was a lesson in
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self preservation. Okay. If you think about the queen, I mean, the main
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character, obviously, Hamlet, I think he has his
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own version of self preservation when he starts talking to the ghost, his father’s
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ghost and stuff like that, and he’s going down this rabbit hole
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of what we would today consider probably mental illness. Whereas back
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in the day, I’m not 100% convinced they
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understood what mental illness even was.
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And that might have been like the idea of, oh, my God,
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maybe he really does talk to the spirits or whatever. Right.
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He’s really seeing his father’s ghost or whatnot. And today we would have been like,
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oh, let’s put him on some Jurassic banner.
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Let’s dope that kid up, because we can’t have
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him talking. Yeah, you’re right. But in the
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same sense, regardless of that, I think there are lots
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of ways that you can look at Hamlet and say when
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you are faced with some semblance of again,
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to your point, whether it’s tragedy or some sort of life altering event
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that self preservation is going to take precedence in you,
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which is where you can think of and the dynamics of power matter.
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In that case. Right. One thing I always thought
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I’ll ask you the question because I’ve never really been able to ask anybody
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else this, but I always thought it was interesting that Shakespeare writing
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as an English person writing about the
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Danish throne, did they not have
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the same sequence of hierarchy meaning
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when his father died? Wouldn’t he just become king?
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I didn’t understand that part of it. But again,
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I was thinking about this in the sense of corporate
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structure, right. When there’s some sort of hostile takeover and you’re maintaining
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some of the higher leadership, and their version of
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self preservation comes in when some new leadership takes over with power,
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there’s some structured dynamics there that kind of can
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translate into the corporate world. But I never understood why an English
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person was writing about the Danish throne, especially back then, where it’s not
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like they had the BBC online. They couldn’t possibly know what
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was going on that quickly. Well,
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I think there’s a couple of different things. That’s a great question. I think there’s
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a couple of different things here. So Hamlet has
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influenced other think about modern television shows.
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Okay, so Sons of Anarchy is
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basically Hamlet with motorcycle gangs.
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By the way, the guy’s father dies,
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the mom who was the wife, unmarried with children. I can’t
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remember her name now. Katie Segal. Thank you. Yes. Katie Segal
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is running around in biker outfit.
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She’s got the queen role, and then you’ve got the new head of the biker
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gang, and you’ve got, you know, the kid coming along who’s whose
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father died under mysterious circumstances. That’s Hamlet. That’s the whole set up right there.
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Yeah. The show succession.
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Succession was the one that would popped into my brain about the corporate takeover.
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Yeah, right. That’s just hamlet, but the father’s not dead yet.
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Right. It’s almost like the father’s already a ghost
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to them, though, if you think about it from that perspective. Yeah, I get it.
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But exactly. Now, as far as the story
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of Hamlet and great power politics in Europe in the 17th century,
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the answer to your question and I think this is the genuine answer the answer
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to your question is the speed of communication,
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from their perspective, was fast.
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True. So the printing press in
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the, you know, the late 15th century, the printing press, I mean,
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Gutenberg was running around disassembling that thing and putting it back
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together, trying to prevent people from copying his work between,
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like, 14 what was it? 14, roughly?
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1460, 514, 75 to the end
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of the century. Right. Martin Luther comes along at the beginning
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of the 15 hundreds, I mean, nails his 95 theses in
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1500 to the door of the Wittenberg Church. People get a hold
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of that, they use the printing press to print that out, and it spreads like
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wildfire across Europe. So I think we have to contextualize
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your question in the context of, for their time,
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the printing press was the Internet. Yeah, true.
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Okay. Shakespeare would have had access to all of that information,
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plus he would have had access to all of the old Greek
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and Roman history. So sophocles aristophanes as plays
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that were being copied and recopied, or that
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had been copied and recopied, and now we’re being on the printing press and spreading
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around all over like wildfire. Right. And by the way, wildfire for them meant
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instead of getting information in a month and a half,
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you got information in a week. Yeah. Right. I know for us that
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seems like, what, a week? But, like,
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you go from a month and a half to a week. Please, we’ll take
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it. Where do I sign up? There’s no friction there. Right.
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Because you can make faster decisions.
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They would be, and I hold to this always, they would be stunned
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by the speed with which we get information. For sure. Oh, my God. They’d be
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blown away. Shakespeare couldn’t work now. He’d be on Twitter all the time, couldn’t get
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any work done. Give me
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a collection of quotes, a.
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Long string of tweets scratching
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his head, trying to figure out, how do I turn this into something?
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Is there anything here? Is this anything? So in
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answer to your question, shakespeare would have known about Danish great power politics
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from his perspective, literally, instantly.
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Now, at that time that’s the time, if I remember correctly,
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of Elizabeth I. Elizabeth I?
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Yes. Elizabeth I. So she was running around doing
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dealing with the Scots, so she was
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dealing with Scotland and William of Orange and of course,
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the perennial enemy, the French. For them, from their
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perspective in England, anything going on in Denmark was
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subordinate to anything going on with France. Sure. And so I get
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the sense and this is my best guess answer. And of course, if you have
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a better answer, you can email me on the podcast and give us a better
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answer. But my best guess sense,
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with what I know of the history there and how things click
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together with the information and other things, my best guess in answer to your question
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is he wrote it to keep himself out of trouble,
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just like most creatives do. He wrote it to keep himself out of
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trouble because if he had written about what
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was going on in the great power politics of England, that would have been too
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close to the bone. Yeah. He had been beheaded.
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Right, exactly. Forget it. Like his head be on a pike.
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You could either have your head on a stick or you can keep tweeting,
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I got you. And I think that’s, for me,
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anyway, that’s the easiest answer. Now, there may be more complicated things. If you
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go and look at the Wikipedia article on Hamlet, there’s a lot of
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good analysis there. I’ve skimmed through a little bit of that,
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and that’s probably the closest encyclopedic analysis of
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Hamlet. But I’m thinking about how creatives create
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at human nature right. And how they deal with leadership
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and power. So there’s that.
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The other thing is,
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if you’re in a great power environment,
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and this is my thought, if you’re a leader in a great power environment,
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you don’t want too many people on the edges popping off about what
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you’re doing. You want to keep as much of that information on the down low
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as possible. You want to make it look like we’re big,
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we’re strong, we’re bad,
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leave us alone. But internally,
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oh, internally, you could be a mess. Yeah, internally you
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could have some mess. And you see this in the court of the court of
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the king. This is why I start off with the king, so he ascends to
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the uncle ascends to the throne. But it’s
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already a mess. It’s a mess even before he shows up, because you’ve got the
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King of Norway, who has no control over his
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nephew, and his nephew just killed well,
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just killed the Danish
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king. Right. So you’ve got that deceit already
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starting to sort of flow through the power politics of the system.
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And then you’ve got the dynamic of Hamlet and his
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buddies horatio
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oh, gosh, the other guy’s name. I can’t remember his name right now. But you
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got him sort of bringing that dynamic along.
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And of course, Hamlet is being driven by personal revenge,
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which is a question I would want to ask you. So should
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a leader be driven by personal revenge?
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And I’m not saying is it right or wrong, I’m saying should that be a
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motivator?
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Whether it should or shouldn’t be, I’m not sure the
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real answer to that, but it
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can be. Whether it is or whether it should or shouldn’t
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be, I don’t know.
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Because sometimes if
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the revenge is against. We’ll just keep
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it in the literary sense, right? Yes. If the personal vendetta
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is against evil and the outcome ends up being good over
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triumphs over evil, then what’s so wrong with it, right?
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Like, who cares? But if it’s the vice versa,
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are we talking about Star Wars here?
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Another tragedy.
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But in seriousness. And again, I’ll try to bring it back to
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some sort of corporate environment where maybe
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you have a son or a daughter that thinks the dad should
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retire and they figure out a way that they take
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over that company. And then you have a sibling that just trying to look out
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for the dad. And they kind of have this personal vendetta against the siblings
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now because they just made dad retire.
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I don’t know. Is there justification there? I don’t know how old the guy is.
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So, I mean, maybe we should have killed him in act three
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instead of. Well, okay,
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so this gets to something else. This is another Pandora’s box,
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right? So every time we open every time you make
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one point, then we’re going to open up another we’re going to open up another
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door here. And this is the door.
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Succession is hard,
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and the thing that makes it hard is people don’t want to give up power.
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Absolutely. I think of the William
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Shatner song that he recorded on the album has been,
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by the way, one of the greatest spoken word albums in the history of spoken
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word albums. Go check it out. It’s on Amazon. Audible Music.
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You can go get it. I’m a big fan of William Shatner spoken word
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albums. Big fan,
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and I’ll leave it at that. But one of the better songs that
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he records on there is this song called You’ll Have Time,
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and one of the lines in the song is,
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you’re going to die.
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Everybody is going to die. Matter of
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fact, by the time you hear this song, I might be dead.
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Hopes Singers
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average people, or how Fight Club put
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it back in the day on a long enough timeline, everybody’s survival drops to zero.
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But people don’t think they’re going to die all the way up to the end.
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They’re going to be like, really? I got to go.
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And as a species, we’re infatuated with immortality.
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That’s why we keep coming up with vampires and all these
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whatever. We always find a way to make us live forever.
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For some reason, we’re infatuated with it. Well, or Project Calico
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over there with Google, they’re coming up doing a dealing nonsense with transhumanism and all
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that kind of stuff. They’re trying to make that thing real. Yeah,
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right. I don’t know.
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But back to your point, though, with the whole power and succession.
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I always found it fascinating that especially in
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the royalty part of it, that you quote, unquote, name a successor almost
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at birth, right? So you have this kids born, you’re like,
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oh, that’s going to be my successor. Then you have three more kids and you’re
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like, oh, God, dang it. So and so would have been a better
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leader, but I already named a successor, so I can’t do anything about it.
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That never really settled well in my brain. Well,
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that’s because fundamentally,
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as a person with an American mindset, that drives
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us crazy. But there’s another tension
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in there, right? So the tension is between
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picking someone who might or might not be qualified and you have no
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idea because they’re full of promise. Like, when you’re six, you have promise.
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That’s all you’ve got. You just got sheaths of promise ahead of you.
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Like wheat, right? Less so when you’re 35,
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you got less promise ahead of you when you’re. 35, especially if you’re 35 still
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living in your parents basement, right? Exactly.
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The decay rate starts to kick in at a certain point. It used to
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be in our culture, the decay rate kicked in right around 18. Now it kicks
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in right around 35. I mean, if you’re a 40 year old person,
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man or woman, you’re that last weirdo at the end of
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the party like that no one wants to talk to. Okay,
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that’s one tension. The other tension is on there
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is the idea that we
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want to pick the person that has the most merit and the most competency.
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I just did a shorts episode about this short, number 73.
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You can go back and listen to it, or you can go listen if you
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want, if you’re listening.
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But that idea of being competent and I’m not talking
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about merit, although we link merit and competency together,
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that idea that someone would be good at
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the basics of something which and you’re talking about royalty or being in
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a corporation, that’s the basics of management,
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that’s the basics of leadership. And that they’re somehow going to just sort of
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get this competency through. Osmosis is
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what has driven much of American business culture for the last my
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God, I mean, 120 years. Probably like Henry Ford
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thought his son was going to be perfectly competent and be a carbon copy of
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him, and his son had zero interest in being. Any of that true
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specifically to me. So I recently just had a conversation about
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this, and I don’t understand why people do this, why companies
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do this. But for me personally, like in sales, right,
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you’ll take that number one salesperson, and you’ll promote them to a
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sales manager or some sort of sales leadership role because they’re
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the best, and then they fail, and they don’t
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understand why they fail, right, because you never
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looked at the other stuff. You just look at the fact, yes, they can
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sell your product or service or whatever, and they might be the best at it,
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but can they teach other people how to do it? Are there
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other factors that you’re not looking at, like design and implementation
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of strategy? If they’re not doing that,
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what makes you think they can run a sales team oftentimes,
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again, not to talk about personal accomplishment or whatever, and I know we
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do that a little bit here, but I was a regional VP of sales for
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a company that I had something like, I think 60 or
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70 people underneath me. And they were all some management levels. And so there
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was two different management levels before they got to me. And I oftentimes
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found myself promoting the number two or number three guy
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or girl into that next manager role because,
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yes, they were able to maintain their quota, but they exhibited
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so much other traits like that were leadership
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traits and I was always questioned until a
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year after they were promoted and they’re wildly successful. And then I
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was like, oh, though you might know what you’re doing.
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Well, it’s because we don’t have a good my
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God, this is great to talk about. And then we’ll go back to
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Hamlet here in a minute. But this is a great point that I
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think bears fleshing out a little bit the
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things that no, not even that systems,
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right, demand a certain level of competency.
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So for instance, if I am building a
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bridge, I want you
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to be really good at math,
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regardless of your gender, regardless of
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your race, regardless of your socioeconomic background, regardless of
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your national origin, I don’t care who you worship, I don’t care who
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you marry and make an intimate life with. I don’t care about
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any of that. I care that
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you are good at math.
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I care that you know that two things plus
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two things equals four things all
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of the time, no matter where we are on infinitum
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mazatov into your health.
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Right? Like that’s all I care about. I don’t care about anything else.
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Right? Once we get past that,
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though, this is the problem. Once we get past
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judging being good on that, we have very little,
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very few metrics for success for all of that
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other stuff. And this is why when I
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do trainings on emotional intelligence, I spend
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two of the first 6 hours just convincing people that emotional
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intelligence actually exists. Yeah, right,
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because people are so because
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of the industrial revolution system that we built,
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even though we’re in the backwash of it,
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there’s still enough people around who remember that all you
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had to do to be competent was be good at the core things.
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And that other stuff, while nice, wasn’t interesting.
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Well, unfortunately, we’ve reached a spot where due to the successes of
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industrialization I’ve been saying this for years. The successes of industrialization we
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are now at a spot where that core thing that
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you had to be good at, that two plus two equals four, can be done
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faster or better by other people, other places, or it can be done by a
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large language model or an algorithm somewhere. Goodbye. It’s gone.
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And so the core has come out of the apple. And now
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people are looking at that, at the rest of the apple, go, and I don’t
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know what to do with this. And that’s a
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problem. And the people who know what to do with the rest of the apple,
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those people will succeed. And everybody else who’s flummoxed or befuddled
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by it, unfortunately, you’re probably going to have to get universal basic income because
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you’re not going to know what to do.
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Tragically. And by the way, there’s so many apples, by the way,
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to push the analogy just a little bit further, there’s so many apples where the
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core is just being taken out. So it’s not just building a bridge,
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00:33:50,230 –> 00:33:54,038
right? It’s sales, it’s marketing.
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It’s the kind of stuff I do with content creation. Like, I’m seeing all the
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stuff happen with AI and content creation, AI driven podcasts,
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AI driven videos, AI this, AI driven marketing, all this stuff,
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right? And at the end of the day,
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that’s just hollowing out the core thing from marketing, or hollowing out
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the core thing from creating content, or hollowing out the core thing from creating a
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podcast. But if I could do the best thing that I could do with
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the rest of that apple, then I don’t care. Go ahead, hollow out all day.
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There’s no fear there, right? But for the people who really need that
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core to exist, like you were talking about, if they don’t meet their sales
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quota, that’s the core of the apple. And all of a sudden that goes away.
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People don’t know what to do. I agree. I agree with that for
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sure. And the person who judges that and has a good sense
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of that will succeed as a leader and
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will succeed even as an advisor to leaders,
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which Hamlet would have done well to have an advisor,
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particularly when he ran into this
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fellow. So, returning to Hamlet, speaking of
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Hamlet’s mental illness, returning to Hamlet still
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in act one, scene five,
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enter Ghost and Hamlet at
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the battlements. That’s where this conversation, this interaction
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is going to happen. Hamlet whither
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wilt thou lead me? Speak, I’ll go no further.
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Ghost mark me. Hamlet I will.
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Ghost my hours almost come when I to
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sulphurous and tormenting flames must render up myself. By the
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way, there’s a concept of heaven and hell there. Hamlet alas,
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poor ghost. Ghost pity me not,
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but lend thy serious hearing to what I shall unfold.
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Hamlet speak, I am bound to hear. Ghost so
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art thou to revenge when thou shalt hear. By the way, that’s the swearing
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that’s the binding together. People really believed
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in that stuff back in the day. Anyway, back to Hamlet.
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What? Ghost now, here we go.
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Here’s the motivating moment in the play.
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I am thy father’s spirit, doomed for a certain term
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to walk the night and for the day confined to fast and fires to
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the foul crimes done in my days of nature are burnt
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and purged away. But that I am
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forbid to tell the secrets of my prison house. I could a tale
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unfold whose lightest word would harrow up thy soul freeze thy
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young blood make thy two eyes like stars start
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from their spheres thy knotted in combined locks apart
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and each particular hair to stand and end like quills upon
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the fearful porpentine. But this eternal
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blazen must not be to ears of flesh and blood.
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List, O, list if
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thou hast ever thy dear father love hamlet
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o God. Ghost revenge his foul and most
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00:36:54,396 –> 00:36:58,150
unnatural murder. Hamlet murder?
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Ghost murder most foul,
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as in the best it is, but this most foul,
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strange and unnatural. Hamlet haste
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we an oath that I, with wings as swift as meditation or the
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thoughts of love may sweep to my revenge. Ghost I find
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thee apt and duller shalt thou be than the fat weed
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that roots itself in ease on Lathe wharf without
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now not stir us this. Now. Hamlet here tis
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given out that, sleeping in my orchard, a serpent stung me.
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So the whole ear of Denmark is by a forged
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process of my death rankly abused. But no,
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thou noble youth, the serpent that did sing thy father’s
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life now wears his crown.
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00:37:46,490 –> 00:37:50,650
Hamlet o my prophetic soul. My uncle
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a ghost. A, that incestuous, that adultered beast
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with witchcraft of his wits, with traitorous gifts o wicked
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witting gifts that have the power so to seduce one to
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his shameful lust the will of my most seeming virtuous
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00:38:05,642 –> 00:38:09,038
queen. O hamlet what a falling off was there.
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From me whose love was that of dignity that it went hand
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in hand even with the vow I made to her in marriage and to decline
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upon a wretch whose natural gifts were poor to those of mine.
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00:38:20,230 –> 00:38:23,794
But virtue, as it never will be moved through the
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00:38:23,832 –> 00:38:27,306
ludinous court it in a shape of heaven so lust
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though to a radiant angel linked will satiate itself
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in a celestial bed and prey on garbage.
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But soft. Methinks I sent to the morning air brief let me be.
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Sleeping within my orchard my custom always of the afternoon upon
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my secure hour thy uncle stole with juice of curse at Hobana
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a vial. And in the porches of my ears did poor the leprous
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distillment whose effect holds such an enmity with blood of man
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that swift as quicksilver courses through the natural gates and alleys
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of the body and with sudden vigor doth it possessed incurred like eager
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droppings into milk and thine and wholesome blood.
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So did it mine and a most instant tetter barked about
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most lazar like with vial and loathsome crust
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all my smooth body. Thus was I, sleeping,
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by a brother’s hand of life, of crown, of queen at once despatched
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cut off even the blossoms of my sin unhousled,
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disappointed, unannounced, nor reckoning made but sent to my account with
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all my imperfections on my head. O horrible.
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O horrible. O horrible. Most horrible.
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If thou hast nature in thee, bear it not. Let not
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the royal bed of Denmark be a couch for luxury and damned incest.
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But howsomeever thou pursuest this act, taint not thy mind, or let
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00:39:46,708 –> 00:39:50,206
thy soul contrive against thy mother ought leave her
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to heaven and to those thorns, and in her bosom
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lodge to prick and sting her. Fare thee
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well at once. The glow worm shows the maiden
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to be near and gins to pale his unaffectual
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fire. The dew do remember
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me.
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I warned you I was going to do that. I have no issue. I have
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no problem. As a matter of fact, I actually kind of like the escalation.
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I don’t know if you realize you do that, but you
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start off and then you escalate, and then you got this peak and
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00:40:31,204 –> 00:40:34,398
valley sort of anyway. That’S how you got to read Shakespeare. That’s how you got
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to read it. That’s how you got to hear it in your head.
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This is early modern English. This is the crossover
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from English that Chaucer wrote in English
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that was closer to what we understand as English.
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And now we’re in post late modern English.
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We’re like, well, we say a lot of like and he’s all and
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she’s all and they’re all and this all yeah. So we’re
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in a totally different we’re in a totally different space. 600 years from now,
654
00:41:05,408 –> 00:41:08,138
they’ll be looking at our stuff going, what does this all mean? Yeah, what are
655
00:41:08,144 –> 00:41:10,986
they talking about? Why do they keep saying, like, what. Are they liking what?
656
00:41:11,008 –> 00:41:13,420
I like, I don’t understand what’s this like thing?
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00:41:15,230 –> 00:41:18,480
No, but, you know, it’s interesting listening to that back,
658
00:41:19,090 –> 00:41:22,766
because I think sometimes we lose. I think
659
00:41:22,788 –> 00:41:26,046
there’s a reason that we get enthralled with movies and television and
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theater, right? Because somebody else acting it out gives you
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00:41:29,304 –> 00:41:32,718
the ability to allow your mind to wander while they’re acting
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00:41:32,734 –> 00:41:35,634
it out. When you are the one reading it. You can’t do that. Right?
663
00:41:35,672 –> 00:41:38,174
Right. It has to be literal,
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literary. It has to be verbatim. There’s no real creative
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00:41:42,258 –> 00:41:46,466
thoughts to get. I was thinking about this as you were reading this, going there’s
666
00:41:46,498 –> 00:41:50,434
a couple of things. Again, if you’re looking at this from several different factors,
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right? Okay. Was he mentally ill or was
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it that he physically observed something that
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he didn’t recognize at the time, and now his brain is interpreting it for
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00:42:02,192 –> 00:42:06,302
him? There you go. Right. So he’s not mentally ill, but something
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00:42:06,356 –> 00:42:09,790
happened to his dad. He saw somebody carry the poison.
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He saw something that it didn’t trigger in his brain until
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00:42:14,072 –> 00:42:17,346
he had this episode with the ghost. And the
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ghost is his internal being telling
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him he saw something that wasn’t right in the world. Right. Or maybe
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00:42:26,328 –> 00:42:29,646
it is truly the ghost. I don’t know. I’m just saying, maybe it is truly
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00:42:29,678 –> 00:42:32,390
the ghost, and the ghost is saying, hey, be careful, son, because you’re next.
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00:42:32,460 –> 00:42:35,686
Like, if they’re going to kill me. You got to watch out
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for yourself. Well, and the ghost talks about damnation right. The ghost
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talks about going to hell. So that’s Christian elements,
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because Shakespeare, unlike Spencer, who wrote
682
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Fairy, Queen and other ones, was very much interested in reinterpreting
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the Dionosian aspects of Christianity back into the
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Apollonian aspects of literature. And there was a line about
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the queen in there, supposedly.
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I forget how he worded it, but I should have wrote it down.
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I’ll even go here. So I was thinking about because I highlighted
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a bunch of this, but he talks about the death,
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obviously the poison being poured into his ear.
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Taint not thy mind. Here it is. Taint not thy mind, nor let thy soul
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contrive against thy mother ought.
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Don’t take revenge against your mother. Right. Leave her
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to heaven and to those thorns and in her bosom lodge.
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Leave her to her guilt, to prick and sting her.
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He’s basically saying she was part of it, but she didn’t
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do it. She knew about it, but she didn’t stop
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it, and she knew about like she’s okay with it to let her I’m just
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00:43:47,508 –> 00:43:51,534
thinking, like, so or is
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00:43:51,572 –> 00:43:54,914
he truly just mentally ill and made all this stuff up in his brain to
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justify the fact that he hates the fact that his uncle is now his dad?
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Right?
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00:44:01,670 –> 00:44:05,186
Well, let’s be
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real. True mental illness, right?
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Creating this stuff in his own brain because he’s justifying his hatred for
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his new king.
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This is that Abalone and Christianity showing
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back up, right? Shakespeare is making a judgment here about
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killing your brother and marrying
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his wife. He uses the word incest
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here. Right? It’s incestuous, right? Right. It’s incestuous.
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And this is something that makes
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us kind of in the modern world, at least up until I would say the
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last I think it probably started 15 years
714
00:44:45,832 –> 00:44:49,780
ago, but I would say within the last five years, we’ve become a little more
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00:44:50,630 –> 00:44:54,770
well, I won’t say we certain aspects of our culture.
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00:44:55,190 –> 00:44:58,518
I’ll frame it that way. If you look at
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the headlines of The New York
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Post or you look at writings that are written by
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researchers that are published in The New York Times,
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you weirdly now have respectable people saying that incest
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is not a bad thing.
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And I know you’re laughing. By the way, those of you who are listening,
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not watching this on video. When you watch the video, you’ll see top crack up
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00:45:21,312 –> 00:45:24,906
when I say this, but I’ve seen this already. I’m seeing the
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beginnings of this. I’m also seeing the beginnings of a whole bunch of other different
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00:45:27,252 –> 00:45:30,574
things, like polyamory and polygamy starting to come back into
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the conversation, which is, well, really interesting.
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I take the position I’ll just be fully transparent on this. When you open the
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door to one thing, there is a slippery slope. That’s why it’s called a slope,
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and that’s why it’s slippery. Anyway,
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let me just chime in on this one, too, because I have a different philosophy.
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To each his own. You can do whatever you want. I just know me,
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I have a hard enough time keeping one woman happy. There’s no way I’m going
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to keep multiple happy. I wouldn’t even try even if I was interested in it.
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Why would I even attempt it? I’d have even less hair than I have
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right now. Okay,
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we’re going to put that we’re going to park that over there for just a
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minute. I just wouldn’t do it.
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Anyway, my point about incest, though, is this.
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Shakespeare had to make a point about culture
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in his time and quite frankly, among the royals,
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among the powerful. And you see this in shows like,
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I mean, most notably Game of Thrones. Game of Thrones
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as a show on HBO. The book goes even
745
00:46:33,832 –> 00:46:37,480
more detail, by the way. So if you read the book, it’s even more okay.
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00:46:37,850 –> 00:46:40,806
It goes off a cliff even harder. Oh, I’m sure.
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So royalty, people in power have
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utilized, have leveraged incestuous relationships for
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centuries. And Shakespeare is making a value
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judgment about this. He’s saying this
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is not good. This is not going to end well.
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I mean, yeah, okay, you kill
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your brother, you marry his wife. His wife may turn
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out to be your cousin or may
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turn out to be your aunt, or may turn out to be
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your sister. And by the way,
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biologically, by the way, Americans just want to point
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this out, not immune from this.
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The Roosevelts, Eleanor and Franklin
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were, if I remember correctly. And listeners, again, this is one of those other details
761
00:47:34,914 –> 00:47:38,162
you can correct me on second or third cousins.
762
00:47:38,226 –> 00:47:42,246
I thought it was second as well. Yeah, second cousins. So Americans
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are not far away from this either. Keeping it
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in the family among powerful people is a thing.
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But this is also something, and we talked about this on the podcast, both in
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shorts episodes and when we talked about Mrs. Dalloway. So the episode on Mrs.
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Dalloway where you mentioned this, I also mentioned it a little bit in
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play it as it lays this month. That was out earlier this year.
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You may want to go back and listen to both of those episodes as I
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00:48:06,104 –> 00:48:09,586
fleshed out this idea I’m about to drop on you now. But this is
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a luxury belief. Incest as
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a method of maintaining, quote, unquote, purity and bloodlines is
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an idea that is fine for the elites, but it doesn’t work
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for the rest of us.
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And I shouldn’t say fine for the elites because it’s not even really fine for
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them. Shakespeare would say it’s not fine for them. It’s not fine for anyone if
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we’re actually behaving like we’re supposed to be behaving.
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However, elites are often captured, and this is
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00:48:35,728 –> 00:48:39,110
an idea from Rob Henderson, the writer and researcher, Rob Henderson,
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00:48:39,270 –> 00:48:43,402
who has articulated it really, really well in our time. And it’s this idea that
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00:48:43,456 –> 00:48:47,214
there are certain beliefs that elite people carry that have no consequence to
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them. So the belief that you can marry your sister and
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it doesn’t matter, everything will just keep going just fine,
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or the belief that you can flirt
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with certain ideologies and even adopt them and
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even adapt them to your life. And by the way, it doesn’t have anything
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to do with anybody else, and it’s fine. Except the problem is
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the elites that adopt those luxury ideas set the boundaries of culture for
789
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everybody else. They are the ones
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that, at a practical level, show us what is approved and
791
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what is not. And when they pull up all the boundaries,
792
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and when they pull up all the fence posts and set them on fire in
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the middle of the field, you got a real problem in your culture.
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And I think Shakespeare was hinting at some of that here with the ghost and
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using the voice of the ghost to make that cultural critique.
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What would he say? Now,
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when we think about the events of Hamblin, when we think about William Shakespeare
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00:49:52,462 –> 00:49:55,794
as a writer, we have to
799
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sort of go into a little bit
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of how this is actually put
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together. And I want to pull some interesting pieces from
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the Folger Shakespeare Libraries edition of Shakespeare.
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Not the one we’re directly reading from, but another one that I have here available
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sitting next to me. And it’s the textual introduction by Barbara Mowat
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and Paul Worstein. And I want to point out a
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couple of things that they point out here as we talk about a little bit
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about the literary life of William Shakespeare.
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Many ordinary readers assume that there is a single text
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for the plays what Shakespeare wrote. But Shakespeare’s plays
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were not published the way modern novels or plays are published today, as a single
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authoritative text. In some cases, the plays have come down to us
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in multiple published versions presented by various quattros
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and by the great collection put together by his colleagues in 1623
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called the First Folio. There are, for example,
815
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three very different versions of Hamlet, which is interesting,
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two of King Lear, Henry V, Romeo and Juliet,
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and others. Editors chose which version to use as their
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base text and then amended that text with words,
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lines or speech prefixes from the other versions that,
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in their judgment, make for a better or more accurate text.
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And by the way, pause here for just a second. They were writing
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for people who would read out loud. So the
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idea of reading silently and we’ve never really sort of brought this up on this
824
00:51:30,308 –> 00:51:32,818
podcast, but this is a good time and I need to bring this up.
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The idea of reading silently and keeping the words in your head is something
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that only really occurred, or began to occur in
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the space of humanity and in human civilization in
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the late right around the late 19th century.
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For the vast majority of literate history. People would
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read out loud because there was no television, there was no radio.
831
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The voice was the way you read this, right. It was the way you
832
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experienced the text. And so Tom was
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talking about my voice going up and down and those kinds of things. Everybody did
834
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that. And the levels of the talent to which
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you had to be able to bring to that would either bore your audience
836
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sitting around a roaring fire at 07:00 at night, or it
837
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would entrance your audience and keep them up long after the
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embers of the fire had died down. So what you’re saying is what I used
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to do with my kids was just embedded naturally
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into me. When I used to read bedtime stories to my kids, I used to
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make up voices and characters all the time because I didn’t
842
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want them to get bored with me just reading the text right out of the
843
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book. Oh, yeah. My wife calls it a clown show. I put on a clown
844
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show for my kids. Oh, yeah.
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Absolutely. And this is why,
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when I read the Bible, I like the King James version of the Bible.
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I like the thieves and thou’s and the Verily’s, and I put on the oh,
848
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what’s his name? God from
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that movie, the black fella. You know who I’m talking about? Yeah.
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Morgan Freeman yeah. For me,
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he’s the voice of God. He played the best God ever. I don’t know.
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I don’t know anyone’s going to argue with that. Even God
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00:53:16,136 –> 00:53:20,710
gives four stars to Morgan Freeman approach.
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That’s it. That’s it.
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But I’ll read it in the Morgan Freeman voice. Right,
856
00:53:29,290 –> 00:53:33,266
but you had to do that. You had to capture your readers.
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You had to capture your listeners attention. Right.
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And of course, the more intimate the writing, the smaller
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the voice. Right. So a Jane Austin book would be read in a different sort
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of contextual voice in a home than Shakespeare.
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Plus, people did go not
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only the middle class and the upper class, but also the lower class did
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00:53:55,060 –> 00:53:57,780
experience Shakespeare’s plays live.
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So they had some conception coming
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down through the generations into the 17th,
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18th, and 19th century of what it should. Quote, unquote,
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sound like and not unlike today.
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Shakespeare himself had input into that. Absolutely. He would
869
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see his plays being performed and say, no, that needs to be in this tone
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or that needs to be in this light. You’re supposed to have a smile on
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your face when you say that. Or you know what I mean? Right. Not unlike
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the writers of today, you write
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the book or you write that. Now you’re a consultant on the film.
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00:54:33,730 –> 00:54:37,786
It’s the same idea. That concept has not drifted.
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00:54:37,978 –> 00:54:41,050
No, well, and it really can’t drift,
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because if it did,
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I think what you would see is
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a collapse of cognition and I’m going to use
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a big term there, but a collapse of cognition, of the
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written word itself. This is one of the things that worries me
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about, and this is one of the reasons why I do the podcast. It’s not
882
00:55:01,916 –> 00:55:04,982
just for leaders, this podcast, although it is,
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00:55:05,116 –> 00:55:08,514
but it’s also to read a book out loud,
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right. To revisit some of that. Because your
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00:55:12,272 –> 00:55:16,650
brain does need more than just the internalization
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of the words. Well, and I guess in what little snippet that we just
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spoke about, again, translate it back into corporate.
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Right. Being a leader, if you’re going to write a strategic
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plan, that does not mean you can drop in the lapse of your subordinates
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and walk away. You need to be able to
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drop your written word into the lapse and then
892
00:55:39,460 –> 00:55:43,314
mold it as it goes. Because you don’t want them interpreting it the wrong
893
00:55:43,352 –> 00:55:46,834
way. Exactly. You don’t want them going down the wrong path too
894
00:55:46,872 –> 00:55:50,950
far that you have to then jerk them back versus lead them back.
895
00:55:51,020 –> 00:55:54,230
Right. I guess in the same sense,
896
00:55:54,380 –> 00:55:58,546
even writing corporate documents
897
00:55:58,658 –> 00:56:01,730
in corporate doctrine, you still have to, as a leader, still have to do the
898
00:56:01,740 –> 00:56:05,754
same thing that we’re talking about these writers doing well. And you see this
899
00:56:05,792 –> 00:56:08,790
in the last few years. When Bezos was at Amazon,
900
00:56:08,950 –> 00:56:13,350
he got so frustrated with engineers
901
00:56:13,430 –> 00:56:16,942
overusing PowerPoint. PowerPoint is not a presentation tool.
902
00:56:17,076 –> 00:56:20,698
He was like, Get rid of that crab. You come in here with a pencil
903
00:56:20,874 –> 00:56:24,414
or a marker and a whiteboard and get after it. If you
904
00:56:24,452 –> 00:56:29,358
can’t explain what you’re doing in the concepts here verbally
905
00:56:29,454 –> 00:56:32,562
from the top of your head and get
906
00:56:32,616 –> 00:56:36,174
that into other people’s brains. If you need the crutch
907
00:56:36,222 –> 00:56:38,100
of PowerPoint behind you,
908
00:56:39,450 –> 00:56:43,238
you don’t know your job. To go back to
909
00:56:43,244 –> 00:56:46,550
something that we mentioned earlier, you’re not competent.
910
00:56:47,210 –> 00:56:50,406
It’s one of the core competencies, because we
911
00:56:50,428 –> 00:56:53,814
can find anybody to do the engineering thing. We can’t
912
00:56:53,862 –> 00:56:57,670
find anybody, just anybody to do the engineering
913
00:56:57,750 –> 00:57:01,418
and the presenting thing. And so I think we forget some of
914
00:57:01,424 –> 00:57:04,526
that in our time, and that’s why we do the
915
00:57:04,548 –> 00:57:06,160
podcast in the way that we do it.
916
00:57:08,450 –> 00:57:11,726
Back to the textual introduction here, there’s a couple of other points I
917
00:57:11,748 –> 00:57:15,674
want to jump off of here, other editorial
918
00:57:15,722 –> 00:57:18,766
decisions. And I want to talk a little about editorial decisions, too, because this is
919
00:57:18,788 –> 00:57:22,034
very important with Shakespeare. Other editorial decisions involve choices about
920
00:57:22,072 –> 00:57:25,986
whether an unfamiliar word could be understood in light of other writings of
921
00:57:26,008 –> 00:57:28,494
that period or whether it should be changed.
922
00:57:28,622 –> 00:57:32,034
Decisions about words that made it into Shakespeare’s text by accident
923
00:57:32,162 –> 00:57:35,538
through 400 years of printings and misprinting,
924
00:57:35,634 –> 00:57:39,250
and even decisions based on cultural preferences and taste.
925
00:57:39,410 –> 00:57:43,410
When the Moby text was created, for example, it was deemed improper and indecent
926
00:57:43,490 –> 00:57:47,046
for Miranda to chastise Taliban for having attempted
927
00:57:47,078 –> 00:57:51,260
to rape her. See the Tempest, act one, scene two.
928
00:57:51,950 –> 00:57:55,786
Abhorred slave, which any prince of goodness wilt not thou take,
929
00:57:55,888 –> 00:57:59,838
be capable of all ill. I pitied thee all. Shakespeare’s editors at
930
00:57:59,844 –> 00:58:03,022
the time. All Shakespeare editors at the time took the speech away from her,
931
00:58:03,076 –> 00:58:07,114
meaning Miranda, and gave it to her father prospero,
932
00:58:07,242 –> 00:58:10,994
because it was more decent for the father to talk about the rape than
933
00:58:11,032 –> 00:58:14,290
about Miranda to talk about her own rape. In The Tempest,
934
00:58:14,870 –> 00:58:18,334
the editors of the Moby Shakespeare produced their text long before scholars
935
00:58:18,382 –> 00:58:21,502
fully understood the proper grounds on which to make the thousands of decisions
936
00:58:21,566 –> 00:58:25,398
that Shakespeare editors face. Now, I want to pause there because they’re going
937
00:58:25,404 –> 00:58:28,134
to make a point about Othello and Henry V and Hamblin. I don’t want to
938
00:58:28,172 –> 00:58:32,154
get quite into that just yet. There’s an important idea there,
939
00:58:32,352 –> 00:58:35,994
and we don’t often talk about editorial decisions on
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00:58:36,032 –> 00:58:38,810
this podcast in our texts,
941
00:58:39,870 –> 00:58:43,506
but tying it back into leadership, leaders make editorial decisions.
942
00:58:43,638 –> 00:58:45,680
We editorialize all the time.
943
00:58:46,610 –> 00:58:48,510
We, in our minds,
944
00:58:50,370 –> 00:58:54,062
curate and sort through and
945
00:58:54,116 –> 00:58:57,634
validate and choose what to pay attention to and what to
946
00:58:57,672 –> 00:59:01,074
reject. Like, I was recently in a well,
947
00:59:01,112 –> 00:59:04,402
not recently, I am currently in a
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00:59:04,456 –> 00:59:08,126
negotiation, and I’ll leave it at that. I cannot go into details
949
00:59:08,158 –> 00:59:11,174
because it’s a private negotiation, so I won’t go into
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00:59:11,212 –> 00:59:15,042
details about it. But it’s a pretty significant one involving a significant
951
00:59:15,186 –> 00:59:18,594
sum of money and ideas
952
00:59:18,642 –> 00:59:22,362
of value around the
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00:59:22,416 –> 00:59:26,490
object being negotiated over and what the value is
954
00:59:26,560 –> 00:59:27,980
either way, right?
955
00:59:30,510 –> 00:59:33,790
In order to do that negotiation, I’m going to edit.
956
00:59:36,130 –> 00:59:39,840
And nobody thinks that that’s weird, by the way. Everybody does the same thing.
957
00:59:40,210 –> 00:59:43,262
It’s only weird when you point it out. The editing is happening.
958
00:59:43,396 –> 00:59:46,666
I’m going to curate what I’m going to bring to that negotiation
959
00:59:46,698 –> 00:59:50,322
and what I’m not. I’m going to curate for the other
960
00:59:50,376 –> 00:59:53,714
person what I’m going to allow them to put on me and
961
00:59:53,752 –> 00:59:57,454
what I’m going to imprint on them. And I am going to imprint
962
00:59:57,502 –> 01:00:01,058
on them, except the difference between them and myself
963
01:00:01,144 –> 01:00:04,358
is I’m going to be intentional about what I imprint on them. They’re going to
964
01:00:04,364 –> 01:00:08,406
be more reactive to me. And that’s sort of how this
965
01:00:08,428 –> 01:00:12,058
negotiation is going. Okay? And dealing with consequences and
966
01:00:12,224 –> 01:00:15,958
living with outcomes is another part of that curation. But that lies
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01:00:15,974 –> 01:00:17,660
on the other side of the equal sign.
968
01:00:20,670 –> 01:00:23,020
Leaders editorialize all the time.
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01:00:23,550 –> 01:00:26,906
Leaders curate all the time. Leaders make cultural
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01:00:26,938 –> 01:00:29,550
and I love how the point was made here in the introduction.
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01:00:29,970 –> 01:00:33,840
Leaders make cultural preference and taste decisions all the time.
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01:00:35,810 –> 01:00:39,374
How can we use Hamlet as leaders to understand that
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01:00:39,412 –> 01:00:43,074
taste decision? Because there’s multiple different versions of Hamlet running around,
974
01:00:43,112 –> 01:00:45,858
and I want to talk a little bit about the movies. Now. I watched the
975
01:00:45,864 –> 01:00:49,650
Kenneth Brando version. There’s a Mel Gibson version of Hamlet.
976
01:00:50,310 –> 01:00:53,526
There’s a version of Hamlet starring Gandalf from
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01:00:53,548 –> 01:00:56,630
Lord of the Rings. Ian McKellen is a version of Hamlet.
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01:00:57,130 –> 01:01:00,470
There’s a version of Hamlet that your kids have done at school.
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Maybe not the whole thing, but at least a couple of acts.
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01:01:03,870 –> 01:01:07,786
I know that Hamlet has been inserted and we already talked
981
01:01:07,808 –> 01:01:11,066
about succession and kings and Sons of Anarchy but
982
01:01:11,088 –> 01:01:14,742
has been inserted, elements of Hamlet have been inserted into popular culture.
983
01:01:14,806 –> 01:01:18,474
And of course that ties back to the Isaac Azimov joke about strings
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01:01:18,522 –> 01:01:22,506
of quotes being strung together because it’s so ubiquitous,
985
01:01:22,618 –> 01:01:26,346
it’s such a ubiquitous tragedy. And yet people don’t know what version of Hamlet
986
01:01:26,378 –> 01:01:29,730
they’re, they’re quoting from. When the ghost says Murder most foul.
987
01:01:31,110 –> 01:01:34,398
That was, I believe, also a title
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01:01:34,414 –> 01:01:37,380
of an Agatha Christie story. Yes,
989
01:01:39,270 –> 01:01:42,662
this is where you get into. Shakespeare being
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01:01:42,716 –> 01:01:45,778
almost and this is why we do it on the podcast almost at the foundational
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01:01:45,874 –> 01:01:48,870
level next to the Bible of Western literature.
992
01:01:49,290 –> 01:01:52,140
When other texts reference your stuff,
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01:01:53,710 –> 01:01:56,742
you’re at the bottom like you’re the lodestone,
994
01:01:56,806 –> 01:02:00,394
you’re the beginning, you’re the root. Right? And of course
995
01:02:00,432 –> 01:02:04,346
Shakespeare would probably say I rooted everything in the Bible. So the Bible lies
996
01:02:04,378 –> 01:02:08,110
at the bottom of all of it in Western literature.
997
01:02:09,890 –> 01:02:13,210
Eastern literature is not structured this way. Eastern literature is structured
998
01:02:13,290 –> 01:02:16,382
very differently. Absolutely. But Western literature
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01:02:16,446 –> 01:02:20,594
is structured on editorializing taste preference and
1000
01:02:20,632 –> 01:02:22,980
of course, what’s at the bottom. Right.
1001
01:02:24,870 –> 01:02:28,706
What can leaders do with all this information? What’s the thing to pull from
1002
01:02:28,728 –> 01:02:32,166
this? Yeah, I gave you the hard thing. I just teed it up. I just
1003
01:02:32,188 –> 01:02:35,670
gave you the hard thing. Now all you got to do is say dang and
1004
01:02:35,740 –> 01:02:37,640
pause for pause for 10 minutes.
1005
01:02:39,690 –> 01:02:42,678
I hadn’t thought about it that way. And then that’s the other word. Instead of
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01:02:42,684 –> 01:02:45,786
saying dang, thought about it that way. You just pause for
1007
01:02:45,808 –> 01:02:48,890
a good 2 minutes while you collect your thoughts and say,
1008
01:02:49,040 –> 01:02:51,740
you know what? I have no idea. No idea.
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01:02:53,870 –> 01:02:54,810
Honestly,
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01:02:57,230 –> 01:03:01,454
I think part of it if
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01:03:01,492 –> 01:03:04,846
you yourself you are a leader, Hassan, you yourself have
1012
01:03:04,868 –> 01:03:08,514
a core principle that you that is your foundation. But that
1013
01:03:08,552 –> 01:03:12,114
does not mean that you can’t take drips and drabs and pieces and
1014
01:03:12,152 –> 01:03:15,374
parts from other people’s leadership skills and qualities
1015
01:03:15,422 –> 01:03:17,700
and learn those and use those.
1016
01:03:18,630 –> 01:03:21,986
We do it all the time. We talk about guys like Jeff
1017
01:03:22,018 –> 01:03:25,254
Bezos and Anthony Robbins and you know, like,
1018
01:03:25,292 –> 01:03:28,742
we talk about those types of leaders all the time and how we use certain
1019
01:03:28,796 –> 01:03:32,250
parts of it in certain parts of that. I’ll give you one better.
1020
01:03:32,320 –> 01:03:35,738
Again, I’ll just refer directly back to me.
1021
01:03:35,904 –> 01:03:39,274
People often ask me as a sales
1022
01:03:39,472 –> 01:03:42,794
person, as a sales consultant, do I
1023
01:03:42,832 –> 01:03:46,334
lend myself to a certain sales module or
1024
01:03:46,372 –> 01:03:50,298
discipline? Meaning do I use the Sandler sales methodology
1025
01:03:50,394 –> 01:03:54,266
or the Challenger sales methodology or spin selling?
1026
01:03:54,458 –> 01:03:58,242
And my answer is always yes and no. I use
1027
01:03:58,296 –> 01:04:01,374
all of them. Because here’s the thing. As a salesperson,
1028
01:04:01,422 –> 01:04:05,454
my responsibility is to know which one of those sales methodologies
1029
01:04:05,582 –> 01:04:09,494
my customer is going to relate to most and then adapt my
1030
01:04:09,532 –> 01:04:13,126
selling style to the customer, not the other way around. I’m not going
1031
01:04:13,148 –> 01:04:18,402
to pigeonhole a customer into forcefully
1032
01:04:18,466 –> 01:04:21,654
eating or choking down a sales methodology which.
1033
01:04:21,692 –> 01:04:25,306
By the way, there’s one in particular, I’m not going to name it because I
1034
01:04:25,328 –> 01:04:29,050
won’t discredit or hurt anybody here, but there’s one in particular
1035
01:04:29,120 –> 01:04:32,394
that if I recognize a salesperson using on me, I will shut them down
1036
01:04:32,432 –> 01:04:36,142
in a second because it annoys the piss out of me. It just annoys me
1037
01:04:36,196 –> 01:04:40,110
that salespeople use this methodology on people like me.
1038
01:04:40,180 –> 01:04:43,738
Not that they use the methodology, because methodology does work in other environments.
1039
01:04:43,834 –> 01:04:46,878
It works on other people. It will not work on me. So if you want
1040
01:04:46,884 –> 01:04:50,514
to sell me, don’t use this, right? So my
1041
01:04:50,552 –> 01:04:53,858
philosophy and training and teaching and coaching is I want you to learn all of
1042
01:04:53,864 –> 01:04:56,820
them. I want you to be and again,
1043
01:04:57,430 –> 01:05:00,254
I really need to learn this phrase better.
1044
01:05:00,312 –> 01:05:03,746
Hassan so the original version
1045
01:05:03,778 –> 01:05:07,538
of the phrase jack of all trades, right? That whole jack
1046
01:05:07,554 –> 01:05:10,646
of all trades, master of none, and all of a sudden, we have interpreted this
1047
01:05:10,668 –> 01:05:14,074
as a negative thing. And it was not a negative quote when it first came
1048
01:05:14,112 –> 01:05:17,526
out. It was something like, I won’t
1049
01:05:17,638 –> 01:05:21,686
butcher it, but go look up the quote, jack of all trades, master of none,
1050
01:05:21,718 –> 01:05:25,466
look up the original full quote. It essentially says
1051
01:05:25,568 –> 01:05:28,878
that the jack of all trades is a better trait to have because you can
1052
01:05:28,884 –> 01:05:32,238
pull from multiple sources, you can do multiple things.
1053
01:05:32,324 –> 01:05:35,646
So, yeah, I’m okay with being a jack of all trades. I’m okay with my
1054
01:05:35,668 –> 01:05:39,150
salespeople knowing and understanding all of these sales philosophies
1055
01:05:39,230 –> 01:05:42,914
and all of these sales methodologies because I want them to recognize which
1056
01:05:42,952 –> 01:05:46,450
one is going to help them through the sales process better,
1057
01:05:46,520 –> 01:05:50,098
faster, whatever, right? I guess that’s kind of
1058
01:05:50,104 –> 01:05:53,654
what you’re thinking. But from a foundational standpoint, your sales
1059
01:05:53,772 –> 01:05:57,414
have to come from one thing and one thing only. You have to be
1060
01:05:57,452 –> 01:06:00,646
in it to be helpful. You have to
1061
01:06:00,668 –> 01:06:04,234
be in it. I tell people all the time, a salesperson should never talk you
1062
01:06:04,272 –> 01:06:07,498
into anything. A salesperson should help you buy.
1063
01:06:07,664 –> 01:06:11,114
Right? There’s a big difference in that. Talking somebody into something
1064
01:06:11,152 –> 01:06:14,986
that they don’t really need or want or helping them buy something they feel is
1065
01:06:15,008 –> 01:06:17,706
going to help them improve their life, make it better, faster,
1066
01:06:17,738 –> 01:06:20,826
bigger, whatever they’re trying to accomplish.
1067
01:06:21,018 –> 01:06:24,894
You’re helping them buy something that helps them solve that problem.
1068
01:06:25,012 –> 01:06:27,860
You’re not talking somebody into buying something.
1069
01:06:28,710 –> 01:06:32,738
There’s a foundational difference there. And as
1070
01:06:32,744 –> 01:06:37,106
long as your foundation is right, then it doesn’t matter which sales methodology you use,
1071
01:06:37,208 –> 01:06:40,360
as long as your customer gets the end result, right? Well,
1072
01:06:40,970 –> 01:06:46,246
and that goes back to this idea that and
1073
01:06:46,268 –> 01:06:50,230
you do get it from Hamlet. You get it from Greek
1074
01:06:50,990 –> 01:06:54,650
literature, you get it from the Bible,
1075
01:06:54,990 –> 01:06:58,886
you get it from modern literature spreading
1076
01:06:58,918 –> 01:07:02,426
this out. You get it from interactions between people, even the
1077
01:07:02,448 –> 01:07:05,806
smallest interactions at the smallest level. Like, I was talking about
1078
01:07:05,828 –> 01:07:10,110
the negotiation I’m going through. You’re talking about sales methodologies.
1079
01:07:11,010 –> 01:07:14,640
If I’m leading other people on my team. It also applies here.
1080
01:07:16,130 –> 01:07:19,940
And it’s a point that I made in college years and years and years ago,
1081
01:07:20,710 –> 01:07:24,066
and most of my friends did not understand the point that
1082
01:07:24,088 –> 01:07:26,900
I was making. And I was a little bit older than them,
1083
01:07:27,590 –> 01:07:31,526
but as they have gotten older, they’ve understood it more. And this
1084
01:07:31,548 –> 01:07:36,674
is the point. And this is the point. You’re saying Western
1085
01:07:36,722 –> 01:07:40,562
culture in general and American
1086
01:07:40,716 –> 01:07:43,994
culture in particular are still
1087
01:07:44,032 –> 01:07:47,306
results oriented societies. At the end
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01:07:47,328 –> 01:07:50,780
of the day, we’re still results oriented culture. So I think of
1089
01:07:51,550 –> 01:07:54,934
I see things on Facebook all the time from people pushing me various
1090
01:07:54,982 –> 01:07:58,286
things through, like, NBA memes, right? I’m going to relate this to the
1091
01:07:58,308 –> 01:08:02,138
NBA here. And the argument about Jordan versus LeBron
1092
01:08:02,234 –> 01:08:05,742
I’m not going to wade into on this podcast. This is not a sports talk
1093
01:08:05,796 –> 01:08:08,978
podcast. But there is that argument that is going on.
1094
01:08:09,144 –> 01:08:12,242
And one of the things I saw the other day was
1095
01:08:12,296 –> 01:08:17,326
somebody who had made a post on Facebook and was randomly retconning
1096
01:08:17,518 –> 01:08:21,198
Michael Jordan’s entire career to basically say
1097
01:08:21,224 –> 01:08:23,480
that without Phil Jackson, he would have been nothing.
1098
01:08:24,810 –> 01:08:27,894
And I thought and I did. It’s like saying Tom Brady would be nothing without
1099
01:08:27,932 –> 01:08:29,640
Bill Belichick. Right.
1100
01:08:33,050 –> 01:08:36,246
But this gets to
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01:08:36,268 –> 01:08:40,474
the idea of results at
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01:08:40,512 –> 01:08:44,190
the end of it, at the end of LeBron’s career,
1103
01:08:44,770 –> 01:08:48,526
no matter how much we he may like it or not like it, he’s going
1104
01:08:48,548 –> 01:08:52,366
to have a certain result at the
1105
01:08:52,388 –> 01:08:56,180
end of Kobe’s career. He had a result
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01:08:57,750 –> 01:09:01,700
at the end of Michael Jordan’s career. There is a result.
1107
01:09:04,230 –> 01:09:08,210
Currently, I think Tom Brady is continuing to remain retired
1108
01:09:12,010 –> 01:09:15,638
as of the recording of this podcast. Who knows what may happen in the
1109
01:09:15,644 –> 01:09:19,382
future? But as of this recording today, he is currently
1110
01:09:19,516 –> 01:09:22,570
remaining retired with a particular result.
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01:09:22,720 –> 01:09:26,154
Okay? Results matter.
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01:09:26,272 –> 01:09:28,970
That’s all people pay for. People pay for outcomes.
1113
01:09:29,950 –> 01:09:34,426
This is really hard for people to wrap their arms around when they
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want to use a particular methodology to do something and it doesn’t lead to an
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outcome that they want. And then they want to blame the outcome, not the methodology.
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Right. Or if
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you’re losing a negotiation, like if I lose a negotiation,
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it’s because I had a piss poor methodology and
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01:09:51,368 –> 01:09:54,130
I got the outcome that comes from using a piss poor methodology.
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I don’t understand why this is well, yes, I do. I understand why this is
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01:10:00,248 –> 01:10:04,070
hard for people to wrap their arms around. And for leaders, it’s important
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for leaders to recognize the difference between the doctrine,
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the strategy, and the tactics. And I talked about this on Living in the Martial
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01:10:11,202 –> 01:10:14,986
Way episode that we did last year, the Great Forest, lee Morgan book
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where he breaks down, in martial arts
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terms, the doctrine, which is sort of his overall philosophy.
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Or the methodology, the strategies, which is
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what we talk about here. Sort of the mindset that you have to have in
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01:10:29,284 –> 01:10:32,590
order to implement that philosophy. And then, of course, the thing that everybody
1130
01:10:32,660 –> 01:10:35,934
only wants to know about, which is, why don’t anybody approach Tom with this
1131
01:10:35,972 –> 01:10:38,800
particular selling practice? Because he’ll kick you out of the room.
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Tactics. Because they’re just using tactics. And people just
1133
01:10:42,328 –> 01:10:44,830
want to use tactics because they think that that’s a shortcut to the outcome.
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01:10:44,910 –> 01:10:48,574
And there are no shortcuts to outcomes.
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Absolutely not.
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Back to the book, back to Hamlet.
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One other point that I want to make, and then we’re going to jump into
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Ophelia and Polonius. I want to make a couple of points
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there because there are females. You wouldn’t think so, but there
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are females in Hamlet. Ophelia is
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the secondary female character there,
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played by Kate Winslet in the Kenneth Branna
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film. We didn’t really touch on the films. One question about the
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01:11:23,384 –> 01:11:26,706
films, because you’re a film buff. Which is your favorite Hamlet version of
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01:11:26,728 –> 01:11:30,434
Hamlet on film, or do you have one? I don’t think
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01:11:30,472 –> 01:11:33,314
I really do have one, but I think if I was forced to pick one,
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it would probably be the Anne McClellan one. Okay. All right.
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01:11:36,588 –> 01:11:39,590
And mostly just because out of all the people that have played him, he’s probably
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01:11:39,660 –> 01:11:43,138
my favorite actor of that group of people. That group of
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people. But probably no more reason than that.
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01:11:46,400 –> 01:11:49,418
Well, also, I think I think, and this is
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01:11:49,424 –> 01:11:52,554
a point we kind of skipped over, but Hamlet in the
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01:11:52,592 –> 01:11:56,240
play is not
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01:11:57,570 –> 01:12:00,750
a 35 year old guy. Yeah, right.
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That’s not the impression that I get even watching
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the Kenneth Brando version. I was like, this guy’s a little old
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01:12:09,704 –> 01:12:13,806
to be, like, scheming about your uncle. The whole context
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01:12:13,838 –> 01:12:18,946
of the play is I
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don’t know, it works really well if you’re, like, 17. Yeah,
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I was just going to say that. It should be a teenager. Right? The whole
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01:12:25,772 –> 01:12:29,746
concept behind what’s going on, if it’s
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not mental illness and it’s his subconscious trying to convince himself of
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01:12:33,372 –> 01:12:36,306
something, right. Works way better if he’s a late teen.
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Late teens, maybe. Early twenty s you can push it,
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maybe. But after 25, forget it.
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Yeah, forget it. Get over it. The world sucks. Move along.
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You’re lucky we didn’t ship you off to Norway.
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Exactly. Well, and that’s the other dynamic here in Hamlet.
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So you do get the sense that he’s writing
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it for an actor that’s a little bit younger. And I do know
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in Shakespeare’s plays, he did use young boys. In many of his plays,
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young boys played the female roles. Young boys, obviously,
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played the male roles and played the older
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character roles as well. And by the way, this wasn’t anything
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01:13:18,540 –> 01:13:22,614
unusual, right? This was something that was just done.
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Now, in our time, we object to that because we
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associate not necessarily maybe
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Hamlet, but some of his more, shall we say,
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sexually daring plays like Anthony and Cleopatra is
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written with that we just mentioned the
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01:13:42,900 –> 01:13:47,034
sort of the inappropriateness of the rape of Miranda
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01:13:47,162 –> 01:13:50,830
by Caliban the Tempest. The entire
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01:13:50,900 –> 01:13:54,674
plot of Taming of the Shrew was basically turned into ten Things
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that I hate about you. And it works there once
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01:13:59,112 –> 01:14:03,014
you take out the objectionable elements, by the way. So our
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01:14:03,052 –> 01:14:07,122
modern ears, our modern Protestant
1187
01:14:07,186 –> 01:14:10,758
Puritan influenced ears, want to scrub all
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01:14:10,764 –> 01:14:14,086
that from Shakespeare. And yet, just like a good
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01:14:14,108 –> 01:14:17,926
artist, he was seeking to integrate all of that in there. Make a judgment about
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it, just like the incest piece, and make that integration. Not just you
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01:14:21,408 –> 01:14:24,730
talked about him watching his own plays and making changes, not just from
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01:14:24,800 –> 01:14:28,250
what was on the page, but from what was practically being walked out
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on the stage. That’s how you know he was a true artist.
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And, oh, by the way, if you didn’t know that the movie Ten
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01:14:35,556 –> 01:14:40,314
Things I Hate About You was a direct interpretation
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01:14:40,362 –> 01:14:44,466
of the timing of the Shrew. Watch it again, because there’s some Shakespearean stuff
1197
01:14:44,488 –> 01:14:48,226
that happens in there that is blatantly obvious that they’re giving Shakespeare the credit.
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01:14:48,328 –> 01:14:51,700
Oh, yeah, exactly. Well,
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we’re going to cover Taming of the Shrew on the podcast, and the person who’s
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01:14:55,394 –> 01:14:59,174
going to come on and talk with us, he’s a huge fan of Ten
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01:14:59,212 –> 01:15:02,726
Things I Hate About You. So we’re going to go deep off
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01:15:02,748 –> 01:15:06,214
into that last piece about
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01:15:06,252 –> 01:15:09,142
sort of the literary life of William Shakespeare.
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01:15:09,286 –> 01:15:12,090
Sort of a little part through here, just a side note to note.
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So they talk about the Folger library editions and sort of what they’ve done differently
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01:15:17,254 –> 01:15:21,146
in their editorial. I’m going to skip a couple of sentences down the
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reader of the Folger Shakespeare and go to this piece. And I quote,
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the reader of the Folger Shakespeare knows where the text has been altered because editorial
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interventions are signaled by square brackets, which is nice,
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for example, from Othello, and then it’s in square brackets if she and chains of
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magic were not bound. Half square brackets, for example,
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from Henry V with half square brackets. Blood and
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sword and fire to win your right. Or angle brackets, for example,
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from Hamlet. Oh, farewell, honest angle brackets,
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soldier. Who hath relieved you at any point in the text?
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You could hover your cursor over a bracket for more information. Because Folger digital
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texts and this is a point that I want to make, are edited in accord
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with 21st century knowledge about Shakespeare’s texts. The Folger
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here provides them to readers, scholars, teachers, actors, directors, and students free of
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charge, confident of their quality as texts of the plays, and pleased to be able
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to make this contribution to the study and enjoyment of Shakespeare. If you have an
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01:16:13,188 –> 01:16:16,430
opportunity to get the Folger text, get it, particularly the digital version,
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there are sort of some sub things that pop up and
1224
01:16:20,472 –> 01:16:24,466
some interesting other dynamics that
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01:16:24,488 –> 01:16:26,660
are in that text. And I will say this,
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obviously, the modern age that we are in does
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01:16:32,732 –> 01:16:35,430
have a lot of troubles and problems,
1228
01:16:35,580 –> 01:16:39,442
don’t get me wrong but we do benefit
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from being able
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01:16:43,068 –> 01:16:45,980
to look back over the long course of a millennia of history.
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01:16:46,670 –> 01:16:50,682
Being able to pull the best parts of that forward and
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01:16:50,736 –> 01:16:55,722
make some scholarly editorial decisions that
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01:16:55,776 –> 01:16:58,522
actually benefit us and grow our knowledge.
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01:16:58,666 –> 01:17:02,094
And to be able to do that without an
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01:17:02,132 –> 01:17:05,834
ideological lens is the sign of a true scholar.
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01:17:05,962 –> 01:17:09,738
And so picking up the Folger Shakespeare text
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01:17:09,844 –> 01:17:12,882
is well worth your time. All right,
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back to the book, back to Hamlet. Back to the play.
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Hamlet then we go to act two, scene one.
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So Polonius and his man Reynaldo are speaking.
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I’m going to kind of jump cut away
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from Polonius and Ronaldo for a moment but this does
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set up the entering of Ophelia.
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So let’s meet Ophelia. This is sort of the first time we
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01:17:41,248 –> 01:17:43,370
meet her in Hamlet.
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01:17:44,830 –> 01:17:48,214
Enter. Ophelia. How now? Ophelia?
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01:17:48,262 –> 01:17:51,534
What’s the matter? This is Polonius. Ophelia oh,
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01:17:51,572 –> 01:17:53,950
my lord. My lord, I have been so affrighted.
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01:17:54,290 –> 01:17:57,040
Polonius with what, in the name of God?
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01:17:57,490 –> 01:18:00,906
Ophelia my lord, as I was sewing in my closet Lord
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01:18:00,938 –> 01:18:04,622
Hamlet with his doublet all embraced no hat upon his head his stockings,
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fouled, unguarded and down give to his ankles
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pale as his shirt, his knees knocking each other. And with a look
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01:18:11,592 –> 01:18:15,254
so piteous and purpose as if he had been loosed out of hell to speak
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of whores, he comes before me.
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Polonius mad for love?
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Ophelia my lord, I do not know, but truly I do
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fear it. Polonius what said he?
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Ophelia he took me by the wrist and held me hard.
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Then he goes he to the length of all his arm and with his other
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01:18:36,288 –> 01:18:39,834
hand thus owes brow he falls to such perusal of my face
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as it would draw it. Long stayed he so.
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At last, a little shaking of mine arm and thrice his head thus waving up
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and down he raised a sigh so piteous and profound as
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01:18:50,772 –> 01:18:54,560
it did seem to shatter all his bulk and end his being.
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With that done, he lets me go. And with his head
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over his shoulder turned he seemed to find his way without his eyes
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for out of doors he went without their helps and to
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the last bended their light on me.
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Polonius come, go with me.
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I will go see the king. This is the very ecstasy of love
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whose violent property fordues itself and leads
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the will to desperate undertakings as oft as
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any passions under heaven that does afflict our natures.
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I am sorry. What, hath you given him
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any hard words of late? Ophelia no, my good
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lord, but as you did command I did repel his letters and
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denied his access to me.
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Polonius that hath made him mad. I am
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sorry that with better heed and judgment I had not quoted him. I feared he
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01:19:49,784 –> 01:19:52,914
did but trifle and meant to rack thee. But be shrew my
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01:19:52,952 –> 01:19:56,414
jealousy. By heaven, it is proper to our age to cast beyond
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01:19:56,462 –> 01:19:59,974
ourselves and our opinions, as it is common for the younger sort
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01:20:00,092 –> 01:20:03,926
to lack discretion. Come the we to
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01:20:03,948 –> 01:20:07,206
the king, this must be known, which, being kept
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close, might move more grief to hide than hate to utter love.
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Come. Exit Polonius
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and Ophelia.
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It turns out from
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that little clip a couple of things.
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Turns out that fathers watching out for their daughters is not a new thing
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that’s time as old as mine. It also turns out
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01:20:41,374 –> 01:20:45,530
that women and men,
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being mistaken in their communication with
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each other is also about his oldest time.
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Hamlet comes to Ophelia having just had an interaction with
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the ghost of his father, and he’s freaked out, he’s pale,
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he’s shattered all the way down unfettered, as they
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say, meaning not that his clothes are
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undone, but meaning that his emotions are undone. He’s exposed
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emotionally. Exposed emotionally. Correct.
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Vulnerable. Right. Comes to his one true love,
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Ophelia, and she misinterprets it as
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matrimonial lust or desire
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or love or
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she is so disturbed by this and not knowing how to accurately interpret
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01:21:38,568 –> 01:21:42,072
it, she seeks out the wisdom of counsel
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of her father. And Polonius, who is doing his own deal with Long Shanks,
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decides he’s going to use this to get
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something that he wants from the king,
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the uncle of Hamlet,
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and to continue to play power politics with the hand of his
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daughter,
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almost a tale as old as time.
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What shall we do with Ophelia now? As a character,
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she’s positioned as a foil,
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01:22:20,780 –> 01:22:24,650
but she’s also used as a
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01:22:26,620 –> 01:22:30,044
tool to move the narrative forward, right? To move
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01:22:30,082 –> 01:22:33,484
Polonius forward, to move Hamlet forward. She’s also used
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in the later acts of the play to judge Hamlet. And she’s
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01:22:36,888 –> 01:22:40,284
abandoned, right, both by and this is a feminist
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01:22:40,332 –> 01:22:44,012
interpretation of Hamlet, by the way. She’s abandoned
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by both Hamlet to madness, to chasing the
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01:22:48,358 –> 01:22:51,990
ghost in revenge down a path that she cannot go.
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And she’s abandoned by the king, who Polonius has entrusted
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01:22:56,512 –> 01:23:00,128
her to. As the king of Denmark
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begins to figure out that Hamlet’s up to
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01:23:03,902 –> 01:23:07,450
something and that he might want to watch his six.
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01:23:11,820 –> 01:23:15,828
There’s always B characters in an organization.
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There’s always b players. Steve Jobs infamously said that
1331
01:23:19,598 –> 01:23:22,904
a players hire A players and B players hire B players.
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01:23:22,952 –> 01:23:25,736
And he didn’t go much further than that. He said the quiet part out loud
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back in the day when you weren’t supposed to do that.
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There’s always going to be B and C players in an organization,
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and even among A players, there’s going to be differentiation,
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and there’s going
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01:23:39,878 –> 01:23:43,408
to be tussles in hierarchy, and there’s always going to
1338
01:23:43,414 –> 01:23:46,580
be those people who are going to get stepped on because they don’t understand
1339
01:23:46,650 –> 01:23:50,470
the game. They don’t understand the hierarchy, and they don’t know what’s happening
1340
01:23:51,480 –> 01:23:54,616
either, that some. Of them allow themselves to get stepped on
1341
01:23:54,638 –> 01:23:58,436
because that’s also just part of their personality. Correct. And Ophelia
1342
01:23:58,468 –> 01:24:02,088
is one of those characters for the
1343
01:24:02,094 –> 01:24:05,864
Ophelias who are listening to the podcast, male or
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01:24:05,902 –> 01:24:09,676
female? I’m agnostic on gender on this. Ophelia is
1345
01:24:09,698 –> 01:24:11,230
merely a name to me.
1346
01:24:13,840 –> 01:24:16,956
What’s some good advice for them because they’re the
1347
01:24:16,978 –> 01:24:20,636
ones who get jerk back and forth. I know what I would
1348
01:24:20,658 –> 01:24:21,470
tell them.
1349
01:24:23,840 –> 01:24:26,768
I would tell them you got to get your head in the game because the
1350
01:24:26,774 –> 01:24:29,570
game is happening to you whether you want it to happen to you or not.
1351
01:24:32,020 –> 01:24:35,156
But many people struggle with hearing that message. So maybe there’s a different
1352
01:24:35,178 –> 01:24:38,644
way to deliver it or maybe that’s not the message. Well, I mean,
1353
01:24:38,682 –> 01:24:41,510
quite honestly, I have no problem with that message,
1354
01:24:42,280 –> 01:24:45,812
but the clarity of that message might be different to different
1355
01:24:45,866 –> 01:24:49,448
people, right? So for example, meaning get your head in the game because the
1356
01:24:49,454 –> 01:24:52,820
game is happening around you whether you want it to or not, does not necessarily
1357
01:24:52,900 –> 01:24:56,536
mean that you have to change who you are and change your personality. But if
1358
01:24:56,558 –> 01:24:59,616
you’re going to be again, like we just said a second ago, if you’re going
1359
01:24:59,618 –> 01:25:03,592
to be the type of person that allows that stepping,
1360
01:25:03,736 –> 01:25:07,532
then you need to know, be prepared and
1361
01:25:07,586 –> 01:25:10,972
know who you’re going to allow to step on and you who you’re not and
1362
01:25:11,026 –> 01:25:14,640
why and what the outcomes are going to be because of you being stepped on.
1363
01:25:14,710 –> 01:25:17,680
If you’re okay with the outcome, okay, I get it.
1364
01:25:17,750 –> 01:25:21,088
Everybody plays their role, everybody has their part. But if you’re going to
1365
01:25:21,094 –> 01:25:25,856
be stepped on, to just be stepped on and you have no benefit,
1366
01:25:26,048 –> 01:25:29,428
nothing gained out of that stepping, then you’re in the
1367
01:25:29,434 –> 01:25:33,204
wrong spot. You are the wrong stepping stone. You just need
1368
01:25:33,242 –> 01:25:36,564
to move the staircase so that you get some
1369
01:25:36,602 –> 01:25:39,796
sort of benefit out of people stepping on you. Again, it takes all kinds,
1370
01:25:39,828 –> 01:25:43,736
right. So I’m not suggesting if you’re the type of person that is okay with
1371
01:25:43,758 –> 01:25:47,544
people stepping on you. I get it. I’m not, but I get it.
1372
01:25:47,662 –> 01:25:51,484
I try very hard when I find those people in my
1373
01:25:51,522 –> 01:25:55,036
organizations, if I find that person and I recognize that that’s the kind of
1374
01:25:55,058 –> 01:25:58,380
person that is okay being stepped on, I want to know,
1375
01:25:58,450 –> 01:26:02,204
I go out and seek it out myself. What do you hope to gain by
1376
01:26:02,242 –> 01:26:04,976
allowing people to step on you? I don’t try to change them. I don’t try
1377
01:26:04,998 –> 01:26:08,656
to change their mentality. I don’t try to change their personality. I try to
1378
01:26:08,678 –> 01:26:12,050
change their outcome. So I try to look at it and go,
1379
01:26:12,660 –> 01:26:15,970
I understand you’re being stepped on here. Oh no, it’s okay.
1380
01:26:17,240 –> 01:26:20,100
Well, if you’re going to be stepped on, what do you gain out of this?
1381
01:26:20,170 –> 01:26:23,284
What is the benefit of this? Because there are some of those things I heard
1382
01:26:23,322 –> 01:26:27,248
a phrase when I was very young that I still believe in today, and it’s
1383
01:26:27,424 –> 01:26:30,728
be good to people on the way up because you’re going to see them on
1384
01:26:30,734 –> 01:26:34,424
the way down, right? So that same person that you stepped on to get
1385
01:26:34,462 –> 01:26:37,816
higher and higher and higher. When the time comes that you’re coming down, they may
1386
01:26:37,838 –> 01:26:40,636
be in the same spot, but now all of a sudden, you are lower than
1387
01:26:40,658 –> 01:26:43,070
them. So again,
1388
01:26:44,160 –> 01:26:47,676
there’s always something there has to be an angle, and as long as you
1389
01:26:47,698 –> 01:26:50,900
know and understand your angle, I’m okay with you being somebody who gets stepped
1390
01:26:50,920 –> 01:26:53,520
on as long as it’s not to your detriment.
1391
01:26:54,420 –> 01:26:57,712
Well, also to the people doing the stepping. Now, we see this also
1392
01:26:57,766 –> 01:27:01,330
in Hamlet, right. So Rosencrantz and Guildenstein, right.
1393
01:27:02,360 –> 01:27:05,620
Those two characters were kind of buddies of Hamlet.
1394
01:27:05,960 –> 01:27:09,190
They’re kind of his advisors, right? They are.
1395
01:27:10,280 –> 01:27:14,240
It kind of reminded me a little bit of sort of the advisors
1396
01:27:14,320 –> 01:27:18,544
of the king that came after Solomon Raboam
1397
01:27:18,672 –> 01:27:22,116
back in Kings. Right. He had advisors around him
1398
01:27:22,138 –> 01:27:24,788
who were young, and then he had the wise men. And first he asked the
1399
01:27:24,794 –> 01:27:27,756
wise man what he should do of the Kingdom of Judah, I believe it was.
1400
01:27:27,778 –> 01:27:30,648
And the wiseman gave him wise counsel. And then he went to his buddies,
1401
01:27:30,824 –> 01:27:34,408
and his buddies gave him the council of, like, 21 year olds,
1402
01:27:34,504 –> 01:27:37,436
and he took the council of the 21 year olds, and he should have taken
1403
01:27:37,458 –> 01:27:40,796
the council of the older men. Thus a
1404
01:27:40,818 –> 01:27:43,804
civil war was ignited in Israel. Right. Well,
1405
01:27:43,842 –> 01:27:47,696
Rosencrantz and Guildenstein are sort of these
1406
01:27:47,878 –> 01:27:52,064
I wouldn’t really say comedic, but they walk that line yeah,
1407
01:27:52,102 –> 01:27:55,924
they walk that line of kind of comedic, kind of your good time
1408
01:27:55,962 –> 01:27:59,508
buddies, right. The buffoons. The buffoons, right. Well,
1409
01:27:59,594 –> 01:28:02,388
they’re the people who my father would have said back in the day when I
1410
01:28:02,394 –> 01:28:05,316
was a kid, he would have asked me the question. I’m sure your father asked
1411
01:28:05,338 –> 01:28:08,424
you a variation of this question. Fathers all over ask their kids this
1412
01:28:08,462 –> 01:28:11,620
question. If all of your friends jumped off a cliff,
1413
01:28:11,780 –> 01:28:14,696
would you jump off of the cliff, too? Now,
1414
01:28:14,878 –> 01:28:19,004
the genuine answer to that, if you’re like, between ten and 17 is,
1415
01:28:19,042 –> 01:28:21,790
yes, of course I would jump yeah,
1416
01:28:22,720 –> 01:28:26,376
it seems ridiculous. If they’re jumping off the bridge,
1417
01:28:26,408 –> 01:28:28,796
there’s a reason I’m going to jump with them,
1418
01:28:28,818 –> 01:28:32,296
because either they’re jumping into water because it’s fun, they’re being chased
1419
01:28:32,328 –> 01:28:34,736
by a bear, so it’s life or death. I don’t know. There’s got to be
1420
01:28:34,758 –> 01:28:38,352
something. Anyway. Exactly. And this is a disconnect question because.
1421
01:28:38,406 –> 01:28:41,484
You’Re asking it from the perspective of. Oh, I waited, I jumped off that cliff
1422
01:28:41,532 –> 01:28:44,390
between ten and 17, and it turned out there were rocks down there.
1423
01:28:46,120 –> 01:28:49,844
But you can’t tell that to somebody who’s between ten and 17. And so
1424
01:28:50,042 –> 01:28:53,212
Hamlet’s got his buddies, he’s got Rosencrantz and Guildenstern,
1425
01:28:53,376 –> 01:28:58,356
but they’re
1426
01:28:58,388 –> 01:29:01,210
not structured as people who are getting stepped on.
1427
01:29:01,820 –> 01:29:05,924
They’re structured as buffoons. They’re structured as the clown
1428
01:29:05,972 –> 01:29:09,228
in the court. Right. And the clown in the court, and this
1429
01:29:09,234 –> 01:29:12,824
is why comedians are worth protecting. The clown
1430
01:29:12,872 –> 01:29:16,012
in the court doesn’t get stepped on. That’s not his
1431
01:29:16,066 –> 01:29:19,884
role. Or her role. The role of the Jester is
1432
01:29:19,922 –> 01:29:23,456
to point out the fact that no one has any pants on and
1433
01:29:23,478 –> 01:29:27,280
to be left alone because that’s their job.
1434
01:29:27,430 –> 01:29:31,216
Right. You also will have the gesture on
1435
01:29:31,238 –> 01:29:34,996
your team. I think a lot of modern organizations, a lot of
1436
01:29:35,018 –> 01:29:39,028
modern teams don’t know how to spot the gesture. And what worries me
1437
01:29:39,114 –> 01:29:43,030
ideologically yes. What worries me ideologically is
1438
01:29:43,880 –> 01:29:47,300
we’ve placed with certain ideological tendencies,
1439
01:29:47,380 –> 01:29:50,456
particularly in the and I’ll go ahead and say it so Tom doesn’t have to,
1440
01:29:50,478 –> 01:29:54,984
particularly in the De Ni space, we’ve taken the
1441
01:29:55,022 –> 01:29:58,248
jokesters and we’ve said, we’re going
1442
01:29:58,254 –> 01:30:01,544
to ring all the humor out. We’re just r. We’re going to ring it all
1443
01:30:01,582 –> 01:30:05,144
out, and we’re going to take that gesture.
1444
01:30:05,192 –> 01:30:07,756
We’re going to take the Rosencrantz and the Guildenstern. We’re going to take the people
1445
01:30:07,778 –> 01:30:10,108
who would have you jump off a cliff, and we’re going to be like,
1446
01:30:10,114 –> 01:30:13,520
no, we’re not jumping off a cliff. There’s no more cliff jumping going on.
1447
01:30:13,670 –> 01:30:15,840
And what’s one step further?
1448
01:30:16,260 –> 01:30:19,840
Especially again from a corporate environment? We’ve extended that
1449
01:30:19,910 –> 01:30:24,028
beyond the corporate walls. Right. So now those gestures are no longer allowed
1450
01:30:24,044 –> 01:30:28,036
to be gestures, even in a social environment, if there’s enough of
1451
01:30:28,058 –> 01:30:31,808
the corporate people present. Right. So we’re extending
1452
01:30:31,824 –> 01:30:34,960
it now. So it’s not even within the play. It’s within the plays.
1453
01:30:35,120 –> 01:30:38,548
It’s outside of the play that was. Gone into the audience. You’re going to
1454
01:30:38,554 –> 01:30:41,880
the audience. Yeah, we’re going to go in the aisles. Right.
1455
01:30:41,950 –> 01:30:45,192
And then the corporate world is the same idea. To your point, we did that,
1456
01:30:45,246 –> 01:30:48,496
but we also extended our corporate walls beyond
1457
01:30:48,548 –> 01:30:52,076
the building and put it into our personal lives,
1458
01:30:52,178 –> 01:30:55,996
which I’m not really sure how much I
1459
01:30:56,018 –> 01:30:59,276
like and don’t like. There’s parts of it that really need to
1460
01:30:59,298 –> 01:31:02,448
stop, and then there are other parts of it I get. So it’s kind of
1461
01:31:02,454 –> 01:31:05,968
weird. Well, I get in a weird space with this. Well, this is a
1462
01:31:05,974 –> 01:31:08,720
social negotiation. This is sort of what I get back to.
1463
01:31:08,790 –> 01:31:12,724
Right. So I
1464
01:31:12,762 –> 01:31:16,580
think of the line from the Devil’s Advocate, right? Are we negotiating?
1465
01:31:17,080 –> 01:31:22,020
And the answer to that question is, of course we’re negotiating. We’re always negotiating.
1466
01:31:24,200 –> 01:31:27,576
I wonder. And we
1467
01:31:27,598 –> 01:31:31,960
will never know the percentages. We will never know. So we just have to speculate.
1468
01:31:32,860 –> 01:31:37,332
What are the percentages of the Jesters? What are the percentages of the Ophelias?
1469
01:31:37,476 –> 01:31:41,080
What are the percentages of the Uncle King?
1470
01:31:41,240 –> 01:31:45,196
What are the percentages of the Hamlets? What are the percentages of
1471
01:31:45,218 –> 01:31:48,508
the queen who went along just to go along because
1472
01:31:48,594 –> 01:31:51,996
they needed survival? You’ve got those folks out there, too. Sure.
1473
01:31:52,098 –> 01:31:56,204
What are the percentages of the hangers on. What are the percentages of the Horatio
1474
01:31:56,252 –> 01:32:00,384
at the beginning who just don’t understand what’s happening and need to go report that?
1475
01:32:00,582 –> 01:32:05,644
I think of Horatio at the beginning who initially
1476
01:32:05,692 –> 01:32:08,628
saw the ghost and did not know what they were seeing, and then had to
1477
01:32:08,634 –> 01:32:10,916
go report it to hamlet, because they’re like, I don’t know what we’re doing with
1478
01:32:10,938 –> 01:32:14,790
this, right? Played infamously by
1479
01:32:15,640 –> 01:32:18,470
what’s his name from a grumpy year old man,
1480
01:32:19,500 –> 01:32:23,576
which was a total surprise in the Kenneth Branna Hamlet that
1481
01:32:23,598 –> 01:32:26,970
I just watched recently. What’s his name?
1482
01:32:27,680 –> 01:32:30,504
Jack or Jack lemon? Jack lemon?
1483
01:32:30,552 –> 01:32:34,220
Yeah. Jack Lemon played Horatio, and it was weird seeing
1484
01:32:34,370 –> 01:32:37,150
Shakespeare come out of Jack Lemon’s mouth. I was like, yeah.
1485
01:32:39,120 –> 01:32:41,628
It was a little disconcerting for me at the beginning, and then I just sort
1486
01:32:41,634 –> 01:32:43,490
of let my brain go, and I just went with it,
1487
01:32:44,900 –> 01:32:48,176
and it works. It’s fine. He does his job. He does what he’s supposed to
1488
01:32:48,198 –> 01:32:51,756
do, moves the narrative
1489
01:32:51,788 –> 01:32:55,108
along. But my point is the percentages of those people in society, then they all
1490
01:32:55,114 –> 01:32:57,620
have roles to play. Like you said, we need all kinds.
1491
01:32:58,520 –> 01:33:01,812
But where are the boundaries? Right? Where where
1492
01:33:01,866 –> 01:33:05,976
are the boundaries? Where does the social negotiation say stop,
1493
01:33:06,078 –> 01:33:09,764
right? And that is the difference between libertarianism
1494
01:33:09,812 –> 01:33:12,680
and libertine philosophies.
1495
01:33:13,100 –> 01:33:16,568
And I’m not speaking even though I want to
1496
01:33:16,574 –> 01:33:20,156
be very clear, I’m not speaking of this out of
1497
01:33:20,178 –> 01:33:23,608
my own personal personality set up, right? So I’m
1498
01:33:23,624 –> 01:33:27,324
highly conscientious. I’m kind of moderate on
1499
01:33:27,362 –> 01:33:30,808
anxiety and on neuroticism, and I’m
1500
01:33:30,824 –> 01:33:33,070
kind of moderate on openness, right?
1501
01:33:34,320 –> 01:33:37,184
But I’m high on conscientious duty, and I’m kind of a little bit lower on
1502
01:33:37,222 –> 01:33:40,768
empathy than I probably should be. I’m not speaking from that. I want
1503
01:33:40,774 –> 01:33:43,828
to be very clear. I absolutely know that the boundaries have to be pushed in
1504
01:33:43,834 –> 01:33:48,212
order to have creativity and growth and development and innovation and
1505
01:33:48,346 –> 01:33:52,116
what are the boundaries? And so my concern is that in
1506
01:33:52,138 –> 01:33:55,988
the social negotiation, we’ve sort of forgotten how to
1507
01:33:55,994 –> 01:33:59,816
ask that question about where the boundaries are. And that’s going to be different for
1508
01:33:59,838 –> 01:34:03,496
everybody based on their life experience. And I
1509
01:34:03,518 –> 01:34:07,000
don’t know how you do that dance with 330,000,000 people on a continent.
1510
01:34:08,300 –> 01:34:11,160
I don’t know how you do it, which is why the creed matters. That’s why,
1511
01:34:11,230 –> 01:34:14,096
for me, the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution matter, because at the end of
1512
01:34:14,098 –> 01:34:16,284
the day, what else are you going to appeal to? Those are the things that
1513
01:34:16,322 –> 01:34:19,516
matter, right? They’ve been around 400 years longer than
1514
01:34:19,538 –> 01:34:23,516
I’ve been around. Okay, let’s just use that. But that’s
1515
01:34:23,548 –> 01:34:26,736
where I come down. I’m a partisan for that. So as many know
1516
01:34:26,758 –> 01:34:28,560
who have listened to the podcast,
1517
01:34:30,660 –> 01:34:34,630
one last question about Ophelia. Before we move into
1518
01:34:36,280 –> 01:34:39,300
act three here, I want to make a point.
1519
01:34:39,450 –> 01:34:43,156
I’m going to give Hamlet another go here, and then
1520
01:34:43,258 –> 01:34:50,952
we’re going to wrap up. We’ve been talking about him for a while as
1521
01:34:51,006 –> 01:34:54,424
the play begins to open up, right?
1522
01:34:54,622 –> 01:34:57,876
We get Hamlet and the three of the players, and I’m
1523
01:34:57,908 –> 01:35:00,644
not really clear on what the role of the players is, and maybe some folks
1524
01:35:00,692 –> 01:35:04,076
can help me out with them, can help me out with that. But as we
1525
01:35:04,098 –> 01:35:07,036
go into the third act of Hamlet, one of the. Things that we begin to
1526
01:35:07,058 –> 01:35:11,296
realize is there’s a lot of build up to what
1527
01:35:11,318 –> 01:35:15,152
he’s eventually going to do. There’s a lot of tugging him along
1528
01:35:15,206 –> 01:35:19,564
and pulling him along and sort of drawing
1529
01:35:19,612 –> 01:35:23,532
him in to a dynamic that he’s not really comfortable
1530
01:35:23,596 –> 01:35:27,456
with. You would think that a person who recognizes
1531
01:35:27,488 –> 01:35:31,124
that his father is dead and his ghost has spoken to him,
1532
01:35:31,242 –> 01:35:35,044
you would think that he’d jump right to revenge. Like, I’m going to go walk
1533
01:35:35,082 –> 01:35:38,020
into the throne room and I’m going to kill the king right away.
1534
01:35:38,090 –> 01:35:41,608
Right. And that’s not what happens. But again, it’s a slow build up. Five year
1535
01:35:41,614 –> 01:35:44,904
old would do it. Right. We keep saying this should be a 17 year old,
1536
01:35:44,942 –> 01:35:47,912
because that’s not what they would do anyway. Go ahead.
1537
01:35:48,046 –> 01:35:51,676
Right. No, that’s right. Well, if you’re going to kill the
1538
01:35:51,698 –> 01:35:55,756
king, you do it in the court in front of everybody and
1539
01:35:55,778 –> 01:35:58,936
you don’t miss. By the way, I got that bit of knowledge from The Wire.
1540
01:35:59,048 –> 01:36:02,056
Great show. If you have an opportunity to watch it. If you’re going to king
1541
01:36:02,088 –> 01:36:05,600
to kill the king, you kilo in this court and you don’t miss.
1542
01:36:05,750 –> 01:36:09,168
You make sure you don’t miss. Gangs of New York was also infamous for this.
1543
01:36:09,254 –> 01:36:12,976
Yes. And unfortunately, DiCaprio missed because Daniel De
1544
01:36:12,998 –> 01:36:16,828
Lewis, you can’t kill that guy. Ultimate villain
1545
01:36:16,844 –> 01:36:19,476
of villains, by the way, would have been a much better king. I would love
1546
01:36:19,498 –> 01:36:22,452
to see Shakespeare come out of Daniel Day Lewis’s mouth. Oh, that would be cool,
1547
01:36:22,506 –> 01:36:25,130
actually. Yeah, I agree. Oh, my gosh. Wouldn’t that be amazing?
1548
01:36:27,340 –> 01:36:29,530
A little chill right there. You’re just thinking about it,
1549
01:36:31,900 –> 01:36:35,000
and then you have some CW actor to be Hamlet,
1550
01:36:35,660 –> 01:36:38,468
and then you just got to put him in scenes with Daniel Day Lewis,
1551
01:36:38,484 –> 01:36:41,916
and Daniel Lewis just eat. He’ll just eat the scenery and the kid will
1552
01:36:41,938 –> 01:36:45,230
just be scared. And you’ll get the actual dynamic of Hamlet there.
1553
01:36:47,200 –> 01:36:48,780
The question becomes,
1554
01:36:53,460 –> 01:36:56,896
if you’re a leader and you don’t quite know where
1555
01:36:56,918 –> 01:36:59,884
the social negotiation is going or where the sale is going or what the outcome
1556
01:36:59,932 –> 01:37:04,176
is going to be, and you are wandering through
1557
01:37:04,278 –> 01:37:08,260
looking for where the build up is, how do you maintain patience?
1558
01:37:08,680 –> 01:37:12,128
This is the thing I think Shakespeare is doing with Hamlet. He’s showing
1559
01:37:12,304 –> 01:37:15,444
how the build up happens because he wants his audience to be
1560
01:37:15,562 –> 01:37:19,528
patient. He doesn’t want the payoff to come immediately. Like you
1561
01:37:19,534 –> 01:37:22,744
said, that’s something that an immature person would want, is the payoff to come
1562
01:37:22,782 –> 01:37:25,620
immediately. But a mature writer like Shakespeare knows.
1563
01:37:25,700 –> 01:37:28,590
No, the thing is in the build up,
1564
01:37:29,120 –> 01:37:31,470
how do leaders deal with the build up?
1565
01:37:32,880 –> 01:37:35,390
Well, here’s the thing.
1566
01:37:37,360 –> 01:37:41,504
This is a very loaded question, only because
1567
01:37:41,622 –> 01:37:45,410
we’ve already talked about how our society today is very
1568
01:37:45,780 –> 01:37:49,136
results driven, right? Right. We rely on
1569
01:37:49,158 –> 01:37:52,476
them, we bank on them. If it’s not for results,
1570
01:37:52,508 –> 01:37:56,390
it doesn’t happen, so to speak. Right. I don’t know how much
1571
01:37:57,000 –> 01:38:00,676
we are afforded patients never mind whether the
1572
01:38:00,698 –> 01:38:03,856
corporate wants it or not. I don’t know how much we’re afforded
1573
01:38:03,888 –> 01:38:07,816
it, in a sense. Right. So I
1574
01:38:07,838 –> 01:38:11,752
think there are other roles outside of my world that
1575
01:38:11,806 –> 01:38:14,808
deserve more patience than sales.
1576
01:38:14,894 –> 01:38:15,530
Right.
1577
01:38:19,120 –> 01:38:22,830
This, to me, I find fascinating in one sense.
1578
01:38:23,840 –> 01:38:27,256
And you talked about the dei earlier, so I’m going to make a comment
1579
01:38:27,288 –> 01:38:32,476
here where I have never in my career worried
1580
01:38:32,588 –> 01:38:35,200
about the age,
1581
01:38:35,350 –> 01:38:38,636
race, color, sex, gender.
1582
01:38:38,748 –> 01:38:42,236
None of that mattered. I looked at did you hit your quota
1583
01:38:42,268 –> 01:38:45,556
or not? Right. And if you didn’t hit your
1584
01:38:45,578 –> 01:38:49,444
quota that month, did we support you the
1585
01:38:49,482 –> 01:38:52,884
same way we would support everybody else? If that answer
1586
01:38:52,922 –> 01:38:56,840
is yes, then you’re fired. Right. I could fire somebody
1587
01:38:56,910 –> 01:39:00,024
strictly based on very calculated things.
1588
01:39:00,142 –> 01:39:04,570
It had zero to do with color,
1589
01:39:04,940 –> 01:39:07,340
race, sex, whatever.
1590
01:39:07,410 –> 01:39:10,828
Right. All those other extra things that we.
1591
01:39:10,994 –> 01:39:14,744
Now take sales out of, it secretarial
1592
01:39:14,792 –> 01:39:16,590
people, administrative people.
1593
01:39:18,320 –> 01:39:21,470
Yeah. That’s different. Right? It’s very different.
1594
01:39:21,840 –> 01:39:25,744
Where does that line draw? I’m fortunate I’ve never had to deal with that.
1595
01:39:25,942 –> 01:39:29,520
I’ve always been dealing with sales and. Marketing people, where I had clear
1596
01:39:29,590 –> 01:39:33,312
ROI, clear numbers, KPIs are very clear. It’s clear
1597
01:39:33,366 –> 01:39:36,564
you either are valuable to us or you’re not. That’s it.
1598
01:39:36,682 –> 01:39:40,420
Well, that’s where I worry, like in sales and marketing,
1599
01:39:42,200 –> 01:39:45,844
if the large language model algorithms are truly the thing
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01:39:45,882 –> 01:39:49,336
that we’re going to move towards, which it looks like we are. Yeah.
1601
01:39:49,518 –> 01:39:53,112
And sales will be immune to some of this, more so
1602
01:39:53,166 –> 01:39:56,516
than marketing, which is already kind of 90% down the rabbit
1603
01:39:56,548 –> 01:39:59,864
hole. Forget it. Yeah. I was even talking
1604
01:39:59,902 –> 01:40:03,068
with people, some of my internal marketing folks today in my organization, and we
1605
01:40:03,074 –> 01:40:06,780
were just like, okay, well, we’ve already got automation working on this one part,
1606
01:40:06,930 –> 01:40:09,628
so let’s just translate this over here, over to here, over to here, over to
1607
01:40:09,634 –> 01:40:13,324
here. Mainly, my ego is
1608
01:40:13,362 –> 01:40:16,188
kind of done with it now. I don’t need to be at the core of
1609
01:40:16,194 –> 01:40:17,708
it. So now that I don’t need to be at the core of it,
1610
01:40:17,714 –> 01:40:21,048
now that my ego is done, okay, let’s just go. And it’s
1611
01:40:21,064 –> 01:40:24,324
90%. I’m just go. And with that being said,
1612
01:40:24,362 –> 01:40:27,476
at the end of the day, people still buy from people on the
1613
01:40:27,498 –> 01:40:30,884
sales end. So you can automate the
1614
01:40:30,922 –> 01:40:34,356
blast of emails all day. Sure. And you
1615
01:40:34,378 –> 01:40:38,104
can automate the webinar, and you can even automate the
1616
01:40:38,142 –> 01:40:41,796
phone call, but you can’t automate the signing
1617
01:40:41,828 –> 01:40:45,272
on the dotted line. Right. So sales
1618
01:40:45,326 –> 01:40:47,130
will be immune to this for a while.
1619
01:40:48,380 –> 01:40:51,788
However, at a certain point, I would tell you, Tom, I think you’re going
1620
01:40:51,794 –> 01:40:55,468
to get caught. I think sales and marketing is going to get caught in particular
1621
01:40:55,554 –> 01:40:58,744
sales, because that’s sort of the last bastion
1622
01:40:58,792 –> 01:41:02,496
of resistance for the Jester. That’s the last bastion of
1623
01:41:02,518 –> 01:41:09,808
resistance for the
1624
01:41:09,814 –> 01:41:13,236
round peg that won’t go into the square hole. They can hide in sales
1625
01:41:13,338 –> 01:41:18,384
and totalizing
1626
01:41:18,432 –> 01:41:22,340
approaches to ideology don’t allow anything outside
1627
01:41:22,410 –> 01:41:25,908
of that, outside of that system. I already don’t
1628
01:41:25,924 –> 01:41:28,760
think we’re immune to that social pressure, though,
1629
01:41:28,830 –> 01:41:32,184
that gesture pressure. I don’t think we’re immune to that at all. I really
1630
01:41:32,222 –> 01:41:33,930
do think because, again,
1631
01:41:36,700 –> 01:41:40,812
you could be the number one salesperson in the company. If you do
1632
01:41:40,866 –> 01:41:44,012
something that is outside of that social norm far enough,
1633
01:41:44,066 –> 01:41:47,180
you’re fired anyway. That’s already done. Yeah.
1634
01:41:47,250 –> 01:41:51,596
But the social norm sort of has expand a
1635
01:41:51,618 –> 01:41:55,072
little bit more for sales. Not as much as you might think. Okay,
1636
01:41:55,126 –> 01:41:57,664
all right. Not as much as you might think. I think that,
1637
01:41:57,782 –> 01:42:01,740
again, I’m going to take my client out to dinner or I’m
1638
01:42:02,240 –> 01:42:05,740
going to take my team my team hit 120% a quarter, so I’m going to
1639
01:42:05,750 –> 01:42:09,184
take my team out for a couple of drinks. Sure. That social environment
1640
01:42:09,232 –> 01:42:12,608
still holds. If somebody says something of that, you’re getting reported
1641
01:42:12,624 –> 01:42:18,856
back to the office. There’s people in trouble now
1642
01:42:18,958 –> 01:42:22,696
where there is a little leeway to
1643
01:42:22,718 –> 01:42:26,792
your point is somebody
1644
01:42:26,846 –> 01:42:30,316
could say something we’ll use the word the term off color because people just know
1645
01:42:30,338 –> 01:42:33,980
what that means, right? Yeah. If it’s
1646
01:42:34,320 –> 01:42:36,510
the amount of off color.
1647
01:42:38,560 –> 01:42:42,364
Is a little bit broader, the shading is
1648
01:42:42,402 –> 01:42:45,568
a little bit okay. Yeah. Because you might have that number one sales rep,
1649
01:42:45,734 –> 01:42:49,376
she says something that’s a little inappropriate, you get
1650
01:42:49,398 –> 01:42:52,564
pulled aside and go, eight, calm that down a little, and they go,
1651
01:42:52,602 –> 01:42:53,510
okay, sorry,
1652
01:42:57,640 –> 01:43:00,816
you’re right to a degree of but it’s not as broad
1653
01:43:00,848 –> 01:43:04,612
as you might think. I would say in the last five years
1654
01:43:04,746 –> 01:43:08,100
it’s been tightening much, much more than
1655
01:43:08,250 –> 01:43:11,656
the 15 years before that. Wow, okay. But it really
1656
01:43:11,678 –> 01:43:14,776
is there. Right. And I’m not exclusively in sales. I mean, I know sales for
1657
01:43:14,798 –> 01:43:18,860
what I do, but I’m not exclusively in that space broadly.
1658
01:43:19,280 –> 01:43:23,244
And so I know for what I do it’s always been
1659
01:43:23,282 –> 01:43:26,556
tight. It always is because kind of the
1660
01:43:26,578 –> 01:43:30,636
nature of leadership development, that’s kind of the nature of conflict management
1661
01:43:30,668 –> 01:43:33,600
or negotiation, if you’re selling those types of products,
1662
01:43:33,750 –> 01:43:37,164
you better be buttoned down like you just better be because there’s
1663
01:43:37,212 –> 01:43:41,280
certain areas of confidentiality
1664
01:43:42,180 –> 01:43:45,324
that if you show up as Rosencrantz and Guildenstern,
1665
01:43:45,372 –> 01:43:48,310
people aren’t going to trust you. He’s going to be like, yeah,
1666
01:43:49,400 –> 01:43:52,196
I don’t know if what I’m saying is going to wind up coming out your
1667
01:43:52,218 –> 01:43:55,828
mouth later on. So you got to kind of
1668
01:43:55,834 –> 01:43:59,456
move away from that. You got to be more Polonious than Rosencrantz and Guildensterne,
1669
01:43:59,488 –> 01:44:03,696
quite frankly. People don’t
1670
01:44:03,728 –> 01:44:07,116
always wrap it’s sometimes hard
1671
01:44:07,138 –> 01:44:10,316
for people to wrap their arms around that idea. But in
1672
01:44:10,338 –> 01:44:12,968
general, I would have thought that sales would have been a little bit more immune
1673
01:44:12,984 –> 01:44:15,176
to it because there’s just some of the funky things I see on the edges
1674
01:44:15,208 –> 01:44:18,604
and on the corners. But maybe you’re right. Maybe things are totalizing all the way
1675
01:44:18,642 –> 01:44:22,256
out. And my thought on
1676
01:44:22,278 –> 01:44:25,776
that is you wind up at the end with sales that is
1677
01:44:25,798 –> 01:44:27,440
denuded of personality.
1678
01:44:28,820 –> 01:44:32,370
Well, that’s a struggle I argue with.
1679
01:44:33,060 –> 01:44:36,224
You can have personality and you can tell those same jokes.
1680
01:44:36,352 –> 01:44:37,510
Clean it up.
1681
01:44:40,520 –> 01:44:42,976
I wouldn’t try to change somebody’s personality,
1682
01:44:43,088 –> 01:44:45,210
but again,
1683
01:44:49,500 –> 01:44:52,776
an off color comment. Sure. Could you make
1684
01:44:52,798 –> 01:44:55,992
it a little bit less off color? Most of them,
1685
01:44:56,046 –> 01:44:59,464
yes, most of them can be does it also go
1686
01:44:59,502 –> 01:45:03,256
with. The product you’re selling? Because this is the other dynamic. Is that the
1687
01:45:03,278 –> 01:45:06,108
core remember I was talking about the core of the apple, right? Yeah. So at
1688
01:45:06,114 –> 01:45:09,564
the core of the apple of sales is, quite frankly, no one who’s in sales
1689
01:45:09,682 –> 01:45:13,340
wants to admit this, but it’s true. It’s what you’re selling
1690
01:45:13,840 –> 01:45:16,924
just as much as how you sell it. Sure.
1691
01:45:17,122 –> 01:45:20,252
If I’m selling furniture, I’ll just use this as an example.
1692
01:45:20,306 –> 01:45:24,544
If I’m selling furniture in a sort of warehouse
1693
01:45:24,592 –> 01:45:28,132
furniture style situation, I’m getting paid
1694
01:45:28,186 –> 01:45:31,670
commission off of how many beds I move in a week.
1695
01:45:32,600 –> 01:45:36,372
I’m selling furniture. Like, there’s really no call
1696
01:45:36,426 –> 01:45:39,876
for me to be weirdo about selling furniture. There’s really
1697
01:45:39,898 –> 01:45:42,984
no call. Right. Customers going to come in, they’re already going to know what they
1698
01:45:43,022 –> 01:45:46,568
want. My job is to facilitate. I mean, I bought furniture from salespeople at one
1699
01:45:46,574 –> 01:45:49,596
of these warehouse places. Quite frankly, they didn’t sell me anything.
1700
01:45:49,778 –> 01:45:52,956
They just showed up with a bunch of paperwork. And I know their title is
1701
01:45:52,978 –> 01:45:57,628
Salesperson, but they weren’t selling me anything. Okay. Whereas that
1702
01:45:57,714 –> 01:46:01,484
process will work maybe with furniture and cars
1703
01:46:01,612 –> 01:46:06,240
and maybe potentially computer hardware.
1704
01:46:06,900 –> 01:46:11,880
But when you’re talking about things that are more ephemeral
1705
01:46:11,980 –> 01:46:15,460
right, like air ideas,
1706
01:46:16,520 –> 01:46:19,780
content, books, movies, software, in your case,
1707
01:46:19,850 –> 01:46:23,616
right. It’s a little more loosey goosey.
1708
01:46:23,648 –> 01:46:26,900
Right. Or is that, again, another space of shades?
1709
01:46:26,980 –> 01:46:30,696
Right. Maybe I’m conflating too
1710
01:46:30,718 –> 01:46:33,450
many things together, which I’ll be all admit, maybe I am.
1711
01:46:33,820 –> 01:46:36,570
It’s a bit of an oversimplification, for sure. Okay.
1712
01:46:40,320 –> 01:46:43,660
I actually think your analogy or your example of
1713
01:46:43,730 –> 01:46:47,356
the selling furniture lends to being
1714
01:46:47,538 –> 01:46:50,396
you have to be more conscious of what you say. You have to bite the
1715
01:46:50,418 –> 01:46:53,756
tongue more. Think about it. Me and my wife go
1716
01:46:53,778 –> 01:46:56,896
in and we’re going to look for a couch, and the sales guy is like,
1717
01:46:56,918 –> 01:47:00,480
that old school. Like, how could you imagine what you could do on this couch?
1718
01:47:01,700 –> 01:47:05,204
Right? Yeah. Okay. It could lead to a lot of things that you shouldn’t say.
1719
01:47:05,242 –> 01:47:09,136
Right, right. Yeah. This is true. But they don’t because they’ve
1720
01:47:09,168 –> 01:47:11,904
been trained, and they’re trained to sell the furniture,
1721
01:47:11,952 –> 01:47:15,750
whatever. Right. And in software, you don’t have those types of
1722
01:47:16,840 –> 01:47:18,390
opportunities. Right.
1723
01:47:20,460 –> 01:47:23,576
You’re usually talking. So here’s the other thing. This is really where
1724
01:47:23,598 –> 01:47:27,044
I tell people to be the most careful. It’s in the rapport
1725
01:47:27,092 –> 01:47:30,796
building part that you have to be careful not in when you’re selling the
1726
01:47:30,818 –> 01:47:34,168
product or service, when you’re selling the ones and zeros of software
1727
01:47:34,264 –> 01:47:37,912
or you’re selling the HVAC
1728
01:47:38,056 –> 01:47:42,412
job or whatever that is, it’s not about the actual sale
1729
01:47:42,476 –> 01:47:45,600
that you need to be careful about what you’re saying. It’s in the rapport building
1730
01:47:45,670 –> 01:47:49,244
phase where you’re trying to make connections
1731
01:47:49,292 –> 01:47:52,896
on an external level, or you’re trying to
1732
01:47:52,918 –> 01:47:56,516
talk about their life, their kids, their house, whatever, and you’re trying to make
1733
01:47:56,538 –> 01:47:59,428
that connection. You’re building that bond of trust with them.
1734
01:47:59,514 –> 01:48:03,124
That’s where you run the danger of saying something that is really
1735
01:48:03,162 –> 01:48:06,896
not appropriate and you’re going to go but again so here’s
1736
01:48:06,928 –> 01:48:10,116
the thing. In really good sales trainers that I have known
1737
01:48:10,148 –> 01:48:13,816
in my past, and one of the rules of thumb that
1738
01:48:13,838 –> 01:48:17,016
I use, you can build this is exactly what I was
1739
01:48:17,038 –> 01:48:21,164
talking about to you earlier. There’s no reason that you have
1740
01:48:21,202 –> 01:48:24,872
to use all of those personal things to build rapport.
1741
01:48:24,936 –> 01:48:27,768
You can build rapport on a professional basis.
1742
01:48:27,864 –> 01:48:31,536
You can use your profession to build the
1743
01:48:31,558 –> 01:48:34,290
rapport, not the personal stuff.
1744
01:48:34,980 –> 01:48:38,128
To me, if the personal stuff comes, it should come after
1745
01:48:38,214 –> 01:48:41,120
when you’re maintaining and you’re building relationship,
1746
01:48:41,270 –> 01:48:45,228
not rapport. Got it? Again. And that’s a
1747
01:48:45,254 –> 01:48:48,756
very trained thing that doesn’t come inherently. You have to
1748
01:48:48,778 –> 01:48:52,516
be taught when you’re building rapport, the rapport should be based on
1749
01:48:52,538 –> 01:48:55,876
the fundamental relationship that’s in front of you, not the relationship you want
1750
01:48:55,898 –> 01:48:59,336
to build later. Right. To keep that customer
1751
01:48:59,438 –> 01:49:02,596
coming back over and over again is when you start extending
1752
01:49:02,628 –> 01:49:06,424
it beyond those. And by the way, if you cannot read the room in
1753
01:49:06,462 –> 01:49:11,656
that scenario, you shouldn’t be in sales if
1754
01:49:11,678 –> 01:49:14,876
you’re going to color outside the lines after you get to that
1755
01:49:14,898 –> 01:49:18,252
point. Once you do get to that personal point, if you’re going to color outside
1756
01:49:18,306 –> 01:49:21,516
the lines, you better damn well know how far outside lines you can
1757
01:49:21,538 –> 01:49:24,672
go. And if you don’t, if you can’t judge that, you probably
1758
01:49:24,726 –> 01:49:26,530
shouldn’t be in sales in the first place.
1759
01:49:30,020 –> 01:49:33,164
I’m thinking of something that no, I’m thinking of a sales conversation
1760
01:49:33,212 –> 01:49:39,068
that I was recently privy to and I’ll
1761
01:49:39,084 –> 01:49:41,668
bring it up later with Tom and we’ll discuss if we could bring it up
1762
01:49:41,674 –> 01:49:45,396
on the podcast in a future episode. Because it relates exactly to
1763
01:49:45,418 –> 01:49:48,440
what Tom just said about coloring outside the lines.
1764
01:49:48,940 –> 01:49:53,064
And I think that that’s a fundamental distinction with the difference that Tom has just
1765
01:49:53,102 –> 01:49:57,000
brought up. That’s hugely important for leaders to understand because leaders are salespeople.
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That is one of the fundamental things. Actually, it’s in my book. It’s in chapter
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five. Leaders should study sales and marketing. You need to study
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the techniques of sales and marketing doesn’t mean you have to be a
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sales manager or a sales lead. It doesn’t mean you have to be
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the CMO. It means you have to know the techniques
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and the tactics and the skill sets and be able to
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apply those across a wide variety
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of people in a leadership context. Because the thing you are selling is
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yourself and your leadership.
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That’s fundamental to your success as a leader.
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And you’re right building rapport, tom’s right building rapport, coloring outside
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the lines, learning who people are you
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can’t be an ophelia in that situation.
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All right, back to the play. Last jog round the corner.
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Going to let Hamlet here have the last word. He’s going to talk a little
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bit about ophelia. This is now act three,
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scene one. King comes in,
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talks with king and queen come in. They talk with Rosencrantz and Gilgen,
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Stern and Polonius. And the
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king then sends for Hamlet.
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And,
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well, they kind of listen to Hamlet kind of walking up the
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pathway, sort of thinking out loud.
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Let’s be privy to some of Hamlet’s internal structure
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here a little bit in act three, scene one.
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Hamlet to be, or not to be,
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that is the question. Whether it is nobler in
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the mind to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune
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or to take arms against a sea of troubles and
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by opposing end them.
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To die, to sleep, no more. And by sleep to say
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we end the heartache and the thousand natural shocks that flesh is
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heir to tis consummation devoutly to be wished.
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To die, to sleep, to sleep, per chance to dream.
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Hey, there’s the rub. For in that
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sleep of death what dreams may come when we have shuffled
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off this mortal coil must give us pause.
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There’s the respect and makes calamity of
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so long life. For who would bear
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the whips and scorns of time, the oppressors wrong, the proud man’s consumer,
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the pangs of despise, the love, the laws delay, the incidents of
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office and the spurns that patient merit of the unworthy takes
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when he himself might his quietest make with a bare
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bodkin? Who would fardells bear to grunt and
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sweat under a weary life but that the dread of something
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after death, the undiscovered country from whose born
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no traveler returns puzzle the will and makes us rather
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bear those ills we have than fly
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to others that we know not of?
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Thus conscience does make cowards of us all.
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And thus the native hue of resolution is sickled or with
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the pale cast of thought and enterprises of great pitch and
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moment with this regard their currents turn awry and
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to lose the name of action soft you now, the Pharaoh.
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Feela, nymph, in thy orisins
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be all my sins remembered.
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Probably the most iconic monologue right of any
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piece of literature. As soon as you started saying
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it, I was like, oh, I actually remember this. We had to memorize this
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in school. I actually remembered most of it, not all of it, but I was
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like, wow. I didn’t realize how embedded
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that was. It’s deep in there, Tommy.
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It’s in the system. I thought
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that that was a good spot to stop at.
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Yeah, because that is the question.
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To be or not to be.
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Is it nobler in the mind to suffer the slings and arrows of
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outrageous fortune? Is it nobler in the mind to
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suffer the slings and arrows of having
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your career or the
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boundaries of social approbation coming in. Is that noble?
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Yeah. I picture this in the corporate world of somebody going, should I
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quit my job and go work for that one?
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That’s the thing. Should I just deal with this? Am I better?
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Am I safer? Am I more here and doing what I’m doing?
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Or should I quit my job and. Go take that risk to sleep
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per chance to dream?
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I’m going to dream about what’s over there in that startup dream about,
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01:54:53,022 –> 01:54:56,776
like, Scrooge McDuck, like jumping into a billion dollars worth of
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01:54:56,798 –> 01:54:59,528
coins and swimming around if any of you watch Ducktails back in the day,
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01:54:59,534 –> 01:55:02,968
you know who Scrooge McDuck is and swimming around in those. And if you didn’t,
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01:55:02,984 –> 01:55:06,620
you should. Exactly. That’s right. It was a great series.
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For in that sleep of death what death? Physical death, material death,
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emotional death. For in that sleep of death,
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01:55:15,484 –> 01:55:19,020
professional death, professional death, what Dreams
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01:55:19,100 –> 01:55:22,752
May come. By the way, that’s another great title to a movie that had
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Robin Williams and John Travolta in Back in the Day, where Robin Williams
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dies and goes to heaven or someplace. For in that
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01:55:29,738 –> 01:55:33,620
sleep of death, what dreams may come. When we have shuffled off this mortal coil
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01:55:36,470 –> 01:55:40,358
whose mortal coil? The mortal coil of Hamlet. Mortal coil of
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01:55:40,364 –> 01:55:45,894
your job, the mortal coil of that room, of that
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01:55:45,932 –> 01:55:49,046
remote structure you might be in right now, that hybrid structure where
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01:55:49,068 –> 01:55:51,718
you got to go to the office a couple of days out of the week
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and you’re not getting anything out of it. Look,
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01:55:58,140 –> 01:56:02,328
Johnny Paycheck, put it a little bit more simply in the 1970s,
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take this job and shove it, because I ain’t working here no more.
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And of course, in 2020 and I would argue
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we’re still underneath the royal of this people are figuring
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out that they don’t need to tolerate tolerate
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what they don’t need to tolerate. And I think this is the other thing you’re
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probably picking up on, Tom, in the larger cultural zeitgeist. I think a
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01:56:24,934 –> 01:56:26,528
lot of people are picking up on it, but they don’t know how to put
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01:56:26,534 –> 01:56:29,632
a thumb on it. They don’t know how to define it. It’s that sense
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that things are in tumult, that we are like Hamlet walking
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01:56:33,488 –> 01:56:37,312
into a room and muttering to ourselves
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because we don’t know which way to go. For leaders,
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I think obviously we should read Shakespeare. Obviously, I believe that.
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I believe that you should go back to the roots and
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figure out what is happening there at the root. But also
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I think you should really understand
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the nature of all of these
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01:57:01,154 –> 01:57:05,196
kinds of cultural admonitions that
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are being made in this play because they’re actually human admonitions.
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01:57:09,900 –> 01:57:13,584
So Hamlet performed in Beijing is the same as
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Hamlet performed in Nigeria, which is the same as Hamlet
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performed in Rio de Janeiro, and it’s the same as Hamlet
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performed in Tokyo. These are human things.
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Right? And the more closer we can get to
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our own humanity through Shakespeare, the better it will be for leaders.
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Tom, you got anything to say before we sign off? Any way to round this
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01:57:36,462 –> 01:57:39,560
off? No, I think not. Really.
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01:57:39,630 –> 01:57:43,336
I mean, I almost always have something to say, as you probably already know.
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No, but I think we covered a lot coming into this.
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I was like every other, as usual and
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I have done, I’m like, what the hell does you know, does you know,
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01:57:53,458 –> 01:57:55,756
does this have to do with leadership? But we always figure out a way,
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01:57:55,778 –> 01:57:59,230
right? And we always figure out a way to interpret something in there. So,
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yeah, I think it was pretty cool. I was a little impressed
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with you on this episode there. Well, and we were
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kind of flying blind a little bit. Just so you all know, this is a
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little inside baseball. I didn’t write a script for this episode today,
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so if you hated this. Episode, it was because we were just winging it.
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We were just winging it. We winged the whole thing. It’s because we were winging
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it. That’s right.
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And with that, that’s it for us.
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